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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2013-03-07 06:46 pm

[ SECRET POST #2256 ]


⌈ Secret Post #2256 ⌋

Warning: Some secrets are NOT worksafe and may contain SPOILERS.

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[The Most Popular Girls In School]


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[Rust and Bone]


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[My Mad Fat Diary]


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[Sailor Moon]


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[Harvest Moon: A New Beginning]


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[American Horror Story Asylum]


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[Homestuck]


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[DC Comics]


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Notes:

Secrets Left to Post: 01 pages, 021 secrets from Secret Submission Post #322.
Secrets Not Posted: [ 0 - broken links ], [ 1 - not!secrets ], [ 0 - not!fandom ], [ 0 - too big ], [ 0 - repeat ].
Current Secret Submissions Post: here.
Suggestions, comments, and concerns should go here.

(Anonymous) 2013-03-08 09:19 pm (UTC)(link)
OP sounds like the guy was a dick, but maybe also you dodged a bullet if that was his true colours. It could be that he felt uncomfortable once he got a girlfriend, he probably did realise you fancied him? I know people sometimes act badly toward someone they want to stop seeing rather than be open about it. His new GF may not like him being too close to other girls also. I've seen that happen before, when the good friend gets dumped as the new girlfriend or boyfriend is jealous and has engineered it.

Just saying you should stop analysing yourself, but one thing I've learnt over the years, is when someone I've been close to and spending a lot of time gets a partner, I back off. Not stop being their friend or anything, just pull back a bit and let them get on with it, as I'd rather end up feeling hurt that they don't want to spend the same amount of time with me, or chatting on the phone etc. Plus I don't want them to see me as needy or clingy, as that can be very damaging.