[ SECRET POST #2256 ]

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⌈ Secret Post #2256 ⌋

Warning: Some secrets are NOT worksafe and may contain SPOILERS.

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[The Most Popular Girls In School]


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[Rust and Bone]


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[My Mad Fat Diary]


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[Sailor Moon]


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[Harvest Moon: A New Beginning]


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[American Horror Story Asylum]


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[Homestuck]


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[DC Comics]


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Notes:

Secrets Left to Post: 01 pages, 021 secrets from Secret Submission Post #322.
Secrets Not Posted: [ 0 - broken links ], [ 1 - not!secrets ], [ 0 - not!fandom ], [ 0 - too big ], [ 0 - repeat ].
Current Secret Submissions Post: here.
Suggestions, comments, and concerns should go here.

Comments

[fscom]

09. http://i.imgur.com/dx3qnEk.png
[Homestuck]

[(Anonymous)]

I'm sorry Noodly was so mean to you.

[(Anonymous)]

Oh, was it Noodles? Hm.

Anyway, I'm sorry that happened to you, OP. He was a prick and you can do better.

[insanenoodlyguy]

Oh fuck you guys. By the time I discovered Homestuck or Fandomsecrets I'd been with Chardmonster over 2 years.

[(Anonymous)]

That sucks, OP.

[elephantinegrace]

It sounds like you tried your best to befriend a person (who's Noodly/Noodles?) who turned out to be an absolute dick. Also, as someone who gets called a feminazi on a regular basis, high-five.

[(Anonymous)]

Yeah, this. Dude sounds like a dick. People turn out to be dicks sometimes. It sucks, but what can you do, I guess? I mean, how can you tell in advance whether someone's going to be a dick? It's an interesting theoretical problem.

[(Anonymous)]

insanenoodlyguy. Pretty sure the above anons are just making a joking reference (OR ARE THEY) because he's both one of the resident Homestuck people and in a relationship.

I know it really sucks right now, OP, but it sounds like you're well shot of this guy, whoever he is.

[chardmonster]

Guys, it IS NOT NOODLE.

Our relationship is suffering because of his Supernatural twincest not because of Homestuck it is the glue that keeps us together

[(Anonymous)]

Man, what a loser. I know so many people who start despising their old "fandom lives" when they get busy with girlfriends or boyfriends or simply become more social. There's nothing wrong with leaving behind fandoms for other persuits, but he has absolutely no right to take it out on his old fandom friends and treat them like trash because he's embarrassed or some shit by what he used to (and probably still does) like! And whether you were too clingy or not you still did not deserve at all to be treated like this by someone who gained your trust and was a friend to you. Trust me you did nothing wrong in this one he's the one who's acting like an asshole.

[fingalsanteater]

:(

That's really sad, and I'm really sorry that happened to you. Just from hearing your side of things, it sounds like he was just an asshole. He shouldn't have treated you the way he did even if he wasn't enjoying your friendship anymore for whatever reason.

[insanenoodlyguy]

more then anytiyng it sounds like they were just this person's friends in hopes of possibly becoming a sexual relationship, and once they got somebody else saw no reason to keep shit up.

[rapunzelita]

It's difficult to tell when I don't know the entire story, but seriously, that guy sounds like a 100% asshole. I mean, calling someone a feminazi just immediately makes someone an asshole, by default. Seriously.

I don't think you did anything wrong. I think you had a very important relationship with someone you thought was awesome, and turned out to be a real jerk, and I'm sorry about that. The way you describe his behaviour is actually downright abusive, and that sucks so very much.

You shouldn't feel like trash because of this. He should.

[(Anonymous)]

It really sucks when you share a fandom that you love with somebody and come to associate that fandom with them, and then you have a falling out or they turn out to be a horrible person, and you can't enjoy the fandom anymore without feeling awful. I hope you can find a way to enjoy Homestuck again, nonny.
I don't know much about the guy, but anyone who seriously uses the phrase "crazy feminazi" is probably an asshole, so it sounds like you're better off without him in your life.
*internet hugs*

[republicanism]

well, fuck that guy, what a douche. and fuck his douche friends. nothing of value was lost.

however, dear OP, to avoid more injuries upon your gentle heart, in the future i would suggest looking for a guy who you already HAVE mutual interests with so the basis for your relationship is not something as terrible as homestuck.

[(Anonymous)]

Karma is going to bite him in the ass, OP. Don't worry, you'll be ok. :(

[kamino_neko]

Sorry that turned out so bad for you, OP. :/ I just got into it through similar circumstances, and now I think I need to go hug the friend in question for not being a total douchenozzle.

'Cuz this guy? Total douchenozzle.

[silverr]

The guy sounds like a complete nozzle, a nasty, crusty nozzle.

*hugs*

[silverau]

Oh, OP. I'm so sorry. Being betrayed that way by a trusted friend is terrible and I'm so, so sorry it happened to you. *hugs*

I don't think you were being too clingy. Expecting a friend to treat you like a friend isn't clingy at all. I hate to say it, but it sounds like he was just pretending to be your friend while expecting to get in your pants, and then picking the other girl over you. It was probably either that, or his girlfriend was jealous and wanted him to dump you as a friend. I mean, I hope saying something like that doesn't make you feel worse or anything, but my point is it was him being a douche and not because of anything you did.

[diet_poison]

...am I the only person who didn't think "OMG IT'S NOODLY"

Seriously guys this fandom is HUGE.

OP, I'm really sorry that happened to you. He honestly sounds like a dick. I've dealt with guys like that and it hurts, it really does. I know there's nothing much I can do to make it better, but I offer you hugs and consolation.

WHAT DO WE MEAN WHEN WE SAY TL;DR??

[wauwy]

Beyond all else, a wall of text. Immediately, this makes us skip a secret. Use paragraph breaks liberally.

Beyond that, a lack of of pith. You can say what you said here in 30% of the words. Keep it concise and skip over redundant or unnecessary detail. Boring and uncompelling introductary words don't help either.

this has been a friendly reminder

Blame the girlfriend (and him)

[(Anonymous)]

She might have told him not to stay friends with you because she's threatened by you. It happene dto me with one of my best guy friends. WHen I found out later, he was NOT forgiven. People have to stand up to jealous girlfriends and boyfriends and stand up for a valued friendship!

[cloud_riven]

Considering how easily he's throwing you under the bus for lame nonsense, you dodged a bullet. I hope you get over him, meet cooler homestuck fans, and kick life's ass.

[corvigryph]

Ugh whatever his Frueden excuse is, he's still an enormous pulsating zit on the ass of God for treating you that way aaaaand... gurl you just need to kick him to the CURB for good and never give him the time of day again because you deserve much, much better.

Keep being you in all your fantastic, feminist geeky glory. I promise when the time comes you will meet someone much more worthy of your attention ;o)

And as for that guy, well, fuck him with a balloon poodle.

[(Anonymous)]

OP sounds like the guy was a dick, but maybe also you dodged a bullet if that was his true colours. It could be that he felt uncomfortable once he got a girlfriend, he probably did realise you fancied him? I know people sometimes act badly toward someone they want to stop seeing rather than be open about it. His new GF may not like him being too close to other girls also. I've seen that happen before, when the good friend gets dumped as the new girlfriend or boyfriend is jealous and has engineered it.

Just saying you should stop analysing yourself, but one thing I've learnt over the years, is when someone I've been close to and spending a lot of time gets a partner, I back off. Not stop being their friend or anything, just pull back a bit and let them get on with it, as I'd rather end up feeling hurt that they don't want to spend the same amount of time with me, or chatting on the phone etc. Plus I don't want them to see me as needy or clingy, as that can be very damaging.