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fandomsecrets2013-03-08 07:13 pm
case) wrote in fandomsecrets2013-03-08 07:13 pm
[ SECRET POST #2257 ]
⌈ Secret Post #2257 ⌋
Warning: Some secrets are NOT worksafe and may contain SPOILERS.
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[Jessica Alba]
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[porn... sort of. illustrated]
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[ ----- SPOILERY SECRETS AHEAD ----- ]
13. [SPOILERS for A Song of Ice and Fire]
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14. [SPOILERS for Supernatural]
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15. [SPOILERS for Brave, Wreck-It Ralph]
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17. [WARNING for suicide, self harm]
[My Mad Fat Diary]
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18. [WARNING for rape]
[Far Cry 3]
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19. [WARNING for self harm and sexual abuse]
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Notes:
Secrets Left to Post: 00 pages, 000 secrets from Secret Submission Post #322.
Secrets Not Posted: [ 0 - broken links ], [ 1 - not!secrets ], [ 0 - not!fandom ], [ 0 - too big ], [ 0 - repeat ], [ 1 - ships it ].
Current Secret Submissions Post: here.
Suggestions, comments, and concerns should go here.
Re: Asexuality confuses me
(Anonymous) 2013-03-09 06:42 am (UTC)(link)I don't think this is at all what the OP is talking about. I think the issue is that they're not sure what the definition of "sexual attraction" is, not whether or not someone is having sex, wanted or not--though I hope to hell it's the former because regardless of their reasons for wanting it (which include "to make my partner happy"), no one, asexual or otherwise, should be having sex that they don't want to be having because that's called rape.
Asexuals who are in relationships with regular sexuals are going to have sex, as that is a part of being in a relationship.
First, what are "regular sexuals"? And no, it doesn't have to be "part of being in a relationship".
Re: Asexuality confuses me
(Anonymous) 2013-03-09 06:49 am (UTC)(link)Some asexuals don't feel very strongly either way about sex; it's not something they'll actively seek out, but don't mind if they do it either. Does that make sense?
Re: Asexuality confuses me
(Anonymous) 2013-03-09 07:03 am (UTC)(link)Yeah, I totally get that. If you don't care about it either way and you want to do it to make your partner happy, go for it. It just seemed to me like the person I was replying to was trying to say that it was a requirement for being in a relationship, and it's definitely not. The obvious example is if both people are asexual, but even if one person was asexual and the partner wasn't, they could get their sexual needs met outside the relationship (hopefully with their partner's knowledge/consent), or even if neither person is asexual there are myriad reasons why people would be in a relationship that doesn't include sex. But then I guess that gets into what is and isn't considered "a relationship," and that's a whole other issue.
Re: Asexuality confuses me
(Anonymous) 2013-03-09 07:07 am (UTC)(link)Oh that makes sense then and agree with you there. Looks like we're on the same page then!
Re: Asexuality confuses me
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Re: Asexuality confuses me
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