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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2013-03-10 03:39 pm

[ SECRET POST #2259 ]


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(Anonymous) 2013-03-10 08:42 pm (UTC)(link)
They told me I talk too much and don't know when to stop.

Since then, I just can't bring myself to speak.

It's okay, though. Nobody's noticed.

(Anonymous) 2013-03-10 08:45 pm (UTC)(link)
Or they might just be glad you stopped and aren't mentioning it in order to not make you uncomfortable.

(Anonymous) 2013-03-10 09:04 pm (UTC)(link)
I...wish I could, though. It feels kind of empty, not talking to anyone.

I wouldn't tell them that, though. I can't make myself likable, so dissapearing is the next best thing.
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[personal profile] fingalsanteater 2013-03-10 09:14 pm (UTC)(link)
This is really sad. I'm sorry someone said that and I'm sorry you feel unlikable and neglected. I'm not going to give you unsolicited advice so here's this:

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[personal profile] insanenoodlyguy 2013-03-10 09:19 pm (UTC)(link)
Fuck em. Keep going and never stop.

(Anonymous) 2013-03-10 10:24 pm (UTC)(link)
Oh anon, don't give them that power over you :( You're the one who gets to make decisions about what you do or don't do, including listening to things like this. What makes their opinion of you the "right" one? Telling someone to just stop talking because it's an inconvenience sounds like something major jerks do and I'd take major jerk assessments with a big grain of salt.
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[personal profile] elaminator 2013-03-10 09:25 pm (UTC)(link)
:( Wow, this is incredibly sad. Even if they had issues with you, telling you that seems unnecessarily cruel. I hope you feel better soon anon. You shouldn't take words like that to heart!

As for being lonely, it really, really sucks. Sorry.

Maybe the problem isn't you though; maybe you're trying to make friends with the wrong people. (Some people just aren't compatible.)

(Anonymous) 2013-03-10 09:31 pm (UTC)(link)
So your friend said you talk too much and your reaction was to not talk at all? You seem a bit extremist to me. Maybe ask for clarification, like did you say something that offended them? Went too far with a joke? Were they just having a bad day and took it out on you? Were they joking? Communication is important in any relationship.

And if you want someone to notice something speak up and tell them. Don't pull the emo teen card of sitting in a silent corner bemoaning the fact.

And while you're at it, you might want to find new friends who like you and your talkative self just the way you are.

(Anonymous) 2013-03-10 09:44 pm (UTC)(link)
Same thing happened to me. I regret it now, but it's hard to change something I've been doing since I was nine. I hope whatever you do, it works out better for you.
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[personal profile] littletown 2013-03-10 11:36 pm (UTC)(link)
Lol at them policing when/how you can talk. Fuck them tbh.

(Anonymous) 2013-03-11 03:45 am (UTC)(link)
Oh anon :( They're dicks.

Maybe you talk a bit too much like I do and need to tone it down a bit (oh god is it hard, I try) but don't hold yourself compeltely quiet. you may need some new friends who don't mind the talking