[ SECRET POST #2260 ]

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⌈ Secret Post #2260 ⌋

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Comments

Re: Is this guy flirting with me?

[(Anonymous)]

Why do you say he's out of your league? It sounds like if not for that you wouldn't be questioning if he's flirting or not. Which definitely he is.

Re: Is this guy flirting with me?

[(Anonymous)]

He's very out-going and social, likes expensive things, pays a lot of attention to his appearance and seems to be interested in women like that as well. His girlfriend, ex-girlfriend, social group, and women he talks about being interested in all wear a lot of makeup, always have their hair and nails done, and wear bright, fitted clothing and party a lot. I don't do any of those things. I wear sweatshirts, my hair in a ponytail, no makeup, and the only time I willingly talk about something other than our lab project it's nerdy things with two of the other guys in the group. I just don't get why he would be interested.

Re: Is this guy flirting with me?

[(Anonymous)]

um. don't take this as an insult, but it might be that he figures you can be his bit on the side.

OP

[(Anonymous)]

Well that puts a lovely twist on his "I'm such a good guy!" schtick then. :/

Re: OP

[(Anonymous)]

sa
if he didn't have a gf I'd say go for it but since he does have a gf it doesn't sound like he's really on the level...bit on the side is all I can really come up with that makes sense with all you've said, sorry

Re: OP

[(Anonymous)]

Honestly any guy who talks about what a good guy he is, probably isn't. And the fact that he has a girlfriend should have been your first clue.

Re: OP

[(Anonymous)]

I was really hoping I was overreacting and there was no need for a 'clue'.

Re: OP

[(Anonymous)]

People are always going to give you subconscious signals. Listen to them.

Re: OP

[(Anonymous)]

Your comment seems to imply that guys with girlfriends aren't good guys. What?

Re: OP

[(Anonymous)]

NA

When they're flirting and in a relationship, they aren't.

da

[(Anonymous)]

The op was asking if the guy was flirting so it does kind of sound like they meant the first clue he was flirting should have been that he had a girlfriend. It was a weird thing to say because op wasn't asking if he was a good guy or not.

Re: OP

[deenaa]

I think they mean that if this guy IS flirting with OP and has a girlfriend, then constantly preaching about how great he is seems kinda iffy.

Re: OP

[(Anonymous)]

^ What they said.

A good guy who had a girlfriend wouldn't be creepily flirting with other girls while going on about how good he is.

Re: Is this guy flirting with me?

[(Anonymous)]

I'll admit it also sounds a bit like he's wondering why you're not starry-eyed over him, being a female in his vicinity... It's the combo of his incredulity that you're not interested in talking about dating, assuming that it's "insecurities", his flirting (which he definitely is) which seems to rebound a lot to "how awesome am I, huh?", and his ignoring your shutting him down. Oh, and there's also people who seem to feel like it's their duty to "draw people out of their shell". But the drawing thing lands it closer to awkward flirting to me.

Re: Is this guy flirting with me?

[(Anonymous)]

sa, add on to the last sentence: also the weird caginess about his girlfriend.

Re: Is this guy flirting with me?

[(Anonymous)]

This actually makes so much sense to me, thank you. It does explain why he has no reaction to another casual, nerdy girl (who I think is prettier than me) in the group who really does try and get his attention.