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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2013-03-11 06:46 pm

[ SECRET POST #2260 ]


⌈ Secret Post #2260 ⌋

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Re: Is this guy flirting with me?

(Anonymous) 2013-03-12 02:19 am (UTC)(link)
It seems like that, yes. I have to say though...if he has a girlfriend, then it does really sound like he's trying to get you to be his spare. A 'good guy' would not date a woman and then get all touchy feely with another woman. And if he does it to her, and you two get together, he'll do it to you, too. That's if he ever broke it off with the original girlfriend before he got with you, of course.

I'd act a little bit colder to him, or try bringing up his girlfriend more. "Why don't you take your girlfriend dancing instead?" or "Does your girlfriend draw, too?" etcetc. Really drive home the point that you two are just friends, and that you know he has a girlfriend. (One he is mistreating like a piece of shit for going after other women. I feel really bad for her)

Re: Is this guy flirting with me?

(Anonymous) 2013-03-12 02:27 am (UTC)(link)
Thanks. I don't think I can get much colder towards him but your suggestion on bringing up his girlfriend more was my plan for going forward. I just wanted to be sure it wasn't just me because it would be pretty embarrassing if he was just being friendly and I came off as some vain self-centered twit who thinks everyone is flirting with her.