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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2013-03-13 06:45 pm

[ SECRET POST #2262 ]


⌈ Secret Post #2262 ⌋

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(Anonymous) 2013-03-14 11:17 pm (UTC)(link)
I have a difficult time with mainstream straight porn, because even if every one of these actresses are 100% consenting to what's going on, what's going on usually does not involve verbal consent or anything resembling an equally beneficial experience. Women are basically thrown around and positioned like Real Dolls -- oh, the guy wants you on your knees in front of him? He just grabs you and shoves you down there. Oh, he wants you on your back? Without a word, he just flips you over.

This probably is some women's idea of a hot time, but I hate how it's presented as Just the Way It's Done. Like this is a totally normal way of treating your female partner -- just do whatever the fuck you want to her without communicating, asking her if she's okay with it, responding to any kind of verbal or body language she may be sending you, etc. It's just disturbing to me.

Never mind the preponderance of throat-fucking, choking, slapping, spitting (the worst)....ugh, why do I watch this stuff.

(Anonymous) 2013-03-14 11:22 pm (UTC)(link)
SA. (Sorry, can't edit.)

If it's not clear, what I object to is not that this exists or that some people enjoy sex like this -- I object to how this is presented as The Norm of How Sex Works. So it sends the message that this is how you treat women, and women generally love to be treated like this.