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fandomsecrets2013-03-15 06:46 pm
case) wrote in fandomsecrets2013-03-15 06:46 pm
[ SECRET POST #2264 ]
⌈ Secret Post #2264 ⌋
Warning: Some secrets are NOT worksafe and may contain SPOILERS.
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[Criminal Minds, Dharma & Greg]
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[Teen Wolf/Colton Haynes]
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[Alex and Emma Watson]
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[Anthony Bourdain and Guy Fieri]
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[World of Warcraft]
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[Kuroko no Basket]
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[Les Miserables]
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[Psycho Pass]
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[Journey Into Mystery]
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[ ----- SPOILERY SECRETS AHEAD ----- ]
15. [SPOILERS for Buffy]
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[ ----- TRIGGERY SECRETS AHEAD ----- ]
16. [SPOILERS for Spartacus]
[WARNING for rape]
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17. [WARNING for child abuse]
http://oi46.tinypic.com/25akho2.jpg
[Kuroshitsuji; linked for (obvious) child abuse, animated]
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18. [WARNING for incest]
[Revolution]
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19. [WARNING for rape/abuse]
[Assassin's Creed 3]
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Notes:
Secrets Left to Post: 00 pages, 000 secrets from Secret Submission Post #323.
Secrets Not Posted: [ 0 - broken links ], [ 1 - not!secrets ], [ 0 - not!fandom ], [ 0 - too big ], [ 0 - repeat ].
Current Secret Submissions Post: here.
Suggestions, comments, and concerns should go here.
Re: Intent
I wish more people would see this as a middle ground thing, honestly. The whole "intent is not magic" thing drives me nuts because it puts the ENTIRE onus of the conversation on the person speaking; I've also encountered the opposite attitude where intent is *everything* and if someone interprets something wrong well then it's all on them.
Communication takes two parties. Intent is definitely NOT everything and you should ALWAYS own up to your mistakes, but it DOES matter and if you can't see that a person who hurt you did not mean to do it and accept that it was an accident and just keep being all bitter and angry at them and never let it go then I think you're an asshole. And also a hypocrite.
Re: Intent