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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2013-03-16 03:16 pm

[ SECRET POST #2265 ]


⌈ Secret Post #2265 ⌋

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(Anonymous) 2013-03-16 11:06 pm (UTC)(link)
Aww OP I'm so so sorry. My family also tells me that I need to lose weight as if being fat is the worst thing that can happen to our family so I can relate. If I can suggest, try to focus on things that you like about yourself. It can be your hair, your hands, your smile, your ability to be patient, just try to focus on what you think you have that makes you happy to be alive. Look in the mirror and tell yourself that you are beautiful. It sounds super corny but it's helped me a lot. I know I'm not what society calls pretty but fuck society and all these shallow people who think that they can judge a person solely on how they look just she THEY can feel better about their own shallow insecurities. As long as I feel good about myself, then FUCK THEM. Try to keep positive. Embrace yourself and love yourself and if you want to make changes, whether it be try to lose weight or get a new haircut or wardrobe, go for it with a positive attitude. Or if you don't think you need to change anything about yourself, embrace your beauty, inside and out. Focus on how you feel about your own body and beauty for now, and maybe one day you can feel more confident in cosplaying. BTW I've seem some overweight cosplayers who look awesome and I bet they didn't get ridiculed or laughed at. Or if they did, I hope they were able to shrug it off and remember that shallow assholes aren't worth giving a thought about. Best of luck OP. Sorry this got really long and ranty and...filled with corny positive "love yourself" speeches. I didn't mean for it to happen.