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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2013-03-18 06:42 pm

[ SECRET POST #2267 ]


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[personal profile] anonymouslyyours 2013-03-18 11:16 pm (UTC)(link)
Ugh. So much this.

And I hate, hate, hate when people hound me on kinkmemes to deanon. So much so I've abandoned a few kinkmemes because all the whining and guessing derails sucked the fun out of it for me. I'm not playing hard to get. I just don't post unanon. I don't owe you a username. I even got called a traitor for not deanoning to write a somewhat unpopular pairing because ~as shippers of that pairing we had to unite and be proud~ or something stupid like that.
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[personal profile] agirlnamedtruth 2013-03-18 11:28 pm (UTC)(link)
Yeah, it really bugs me when I see people ask an author to de-anon. If the person wanted to be known then they probably wouldn't have posted anonymously in the first place, would they? *headdesk*

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[personal profile] scherrymouse 2013-03-19 12:00 am (UTC)(link)
The one time I've seen someone ask an author to de-anon on a meme, the author responded positively and seemed flattered to have been asked. But I can see how this could also have gone badly, if that person had been bugged about de-anoning in the past and never wanted to do it, or if the person asking had been rude. It's awful that some people think they can hound someone over something like that.
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[personal profile] agirlnamedtruth 2013-03-19 12:07 am (UTC)(link)
I see your point, I've seen situations too where an anon has grown confident enough to de-anon through positive feedback and the like and that's absolutely lovely but on the whole, asking someone to reveal themselves just seems a bit off to me, no matter how well intended it is, especially when the anon wishes to remain anon.
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[personal profile] scherrymouse 2013-03-19 12:19 am (UTC)(link)
Yeah, I don't think I'd ever ask someone to de-anon, personally; in fact, I didn't even realise it happened until I saw it, because it simply didn't occur to me. I wouldn't mind being asked (so long as the person got that I had the option and right to say 'No'), but I can't know how someone else would take it, so it's best not to... If someone's posted anonymously, I'm going to assume they're cool with staying anonymous. That way, I won't accidentally stand on anyone's toes.

[personal profile] anonymouslyyours 2013-03-19 12:57 am (UTC)(link)
I don't mind at all if someone asks me to deanon, if I have other work they might enjoy, or if I intend to use a sockpuppet to claim my fills or something. It's just when they pester after I've clearly stated no. It doesn't bother me if it's on a new fill but if someone asks again or tries to pressure me on the same fill's comments where I've already stated I'm staying anon? Not cool.
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[personal profile] scherrymouse 2013-03-19 01:08 am (UTC)(link)
I feel the same way about being asked, though since I've only used anon memes a handful of times and my writing is hardly brilliance, it's never actually happened. I'm sorry people have pestered you about it. That's just rude.

(Anonymous) 2013-03-19 04:22 pm (UTC)(link)
I wound up in a sort of de-anoning dance with someone who filled a prompt of mine because I wanted to co-write a much more complex sequel with her. That was kind of a pain, but the result was worth it XD
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[personal profile] elephantinegrace 2013-03-18 11:31 pm (UTC)(link)
Seriously? Wow. They got a damn fill, they should be happy with it. And it's a ship, it's not a label that'll really affect your entire life.
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[personal profile] insanenoodlyguy 2013-03-18 11:34 pm (UTC)(link)
So that's actually a thing? It surprises me but kinda doesn't once you think about it a second.

[personal profile] anonymouslyyours 2013-03-19 01:00 am (UTC)(link)
The de-anon hounding or the shipper pride? Because yes to both.
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[personal profile] greenvelvetcake 2013-03-18 11:58 pm (UTC)(link)
That's really irritating. Some fans can be really spoiled and demanding.

(Anonymous) 2013-03-19 08:10 am (UTC)(link)
and if you deanon people explode with requests and spam and want to be friends and urgh i just want to write kink, not form everlasting bonds.


granted they nag for requests even when anon, but from what i've seen it increases if you're not anon?
or demand your story finish differently to what prompter wants.

and i'm sorry this is a kinkmeme I REALLY DON'T WANT TO DEANON.