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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2013-03-18 06:42 pm

[ SECRET POST #2267 ]


⌈ Secret Post #2267 ⌋

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(Anonymous) 2013-03-19 12:19 am (UTC)(link)
AYRT, and yes I do get pissed when asexuals think coming out as not wanting to have sex is this super oppressive ordeal. I came out and was kicked out of my house. Fortunately (and strangely) my father was a lot more open than my mother and had no problem helping me move across the country to live with him.

As a whole, being homosexual is so much more dangerous than being asexual it is laughable people even compare the two.

(Anonymous) 2013-03-19 07:52 am (UTC)(link)
The part that fucks me off is that while I was closeted, I never spoke to friends and family about boyfriends or girlfriends or dates or sex or expressed any interest in relationships of any kind. You know - like an asexual. I got some annoying questions now and again from nosier relatives, because marriage and family are very important in my community. But so what if people thought it a bit weird? Or told me that I'd change my mind and find somebody later? It did me no harm. That didn't hurt. The idea that if I did find somebody, my friends and family might not respect our relationship or treat her with respect and kindness? That hurt.

People don't need to know every aspect of your desires, life or identity.

Coming out as asexual. Christ fucking Jesus.

(Anonymous) 2013-03-20 07:35 am (UTC)(link)
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