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fandomsecrets2013-03-18 06:42 pm
case) wrote in fandomsecrets2013-03-18 06:42 pm
[ SECRET POST #2267 ]
⌈ Secret Post #2267 ⌋
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(Anonymous) 2013-03-19 04:00 am (UTC)(link)From: http://asexual-not-a-sexual.tumblr.com/post/43920443152/i-get-really-annoyed-when-people-say-that-i-can
I get really annoyed when people say that I can only have hardships as an asexual because I am non-cis (wait, let me change that: because I don’t look cis [because that makes sense]) and because I am non-heteroromantic.
Translation: I look “gay enough” to have crap things happen to me. (Because apparently all gay people look the same, don’t cha know?) And tending to like non-cismen makes me special.
Thank you for the permission to have bullshit things happen to me, and to have all the anxiety and alienation I feel recognized as legitimate. Your generalization regarding numerous identities is a joy to encounter.
But heads up: I wasn’t in therapy for two years because I was “gay enough,” I was there because they couldn’t figure out why a nineteen year old had zero libido and a hatred for being held. (Because there has to be something wrong with that, right?) I wasn’t sent to a doctor to have an internal vaginal exam and hormone tests because they thought I was “gay enough.” I was sent because not wanting to have sex apparently means I’m sick.
So, yes. Apparently asexuality BY ITSELF is enough to result in crappy things.
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There's other accounts like this one, but I'm not digging for them tonight just to prove something to you. Do your own googling like you like to tell people when someone as ignorant as you have demonstrated tonight on this subject asks about a different subject.
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