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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2013-03-24 03:34 pm

[ SECRET POST #2273 ]


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tabaqui: (Default)

Re: "Erotic resistance"

[personal profile] tabaqui 2013-03-24 08:57 pm (UTC)(link)
And? Your point is?

Re: "Erotic resistance"

(Anonymous) 2013-03-24 08:59 pm (UTC)(link)
That we should teach girls to not make themselves come off as wanting it. Everyone knows (crime) is wrong, that doesn't mean there aren't easy targets.

plus, women need to stop fantasizing about rape (90% have rape fantasies?) if they want rape be taken seriously at all.
tabaqui: (Default)

Re: "Erotic resistance"

[personal profile] tabaqui 2013-03-24 09:03 pm (UTC)(link)
'Come off as wanting'..... You mean, as independent beings with a sex drive?

Where'd you pull that stat from? Dear gods, this is the stupidest 'argument' i think i've been in in months.

If trolling - we're done now.
If real - we're still done now.

Re: "Erotic resistance"

(Anonymous) 2013-03-24 09:07 pm (UTC)(link)
if someone acts like a slut and walks around like drunken whore, no one will take her seriously when claiming to be a rape victim. teaching women self respect is the most important step in getting men to respect them as people (and not rape targets/cum dumpsters)

Re: "Erotic resistance"

(Anonymous) 2013-03-24 09:11 pm (UTC)(link)
Yup, trolling.
insanenoodlyguy: (Default)

Re: "Erotic resistance"

[personal profile] insanenoodlyguy 2013-03-25 07:58 am (UTC)(link)

Re: "Erotic resistance"

(Anonymous) 2013-03-24 09:11 pm (UTC)(link)
No.

Fantasizing about a loss of control in a society that teaches women that "good girls" don't desire sex is entirely different than the reality of being violently attacked. What goes on in the privacy of a woman's mind or in the context of a consensually-negotiated kink scene is completely unrelated to sexual activity being forced upon an unwilling person. One does not justify the other, or warrant having the other not "taken seriously."

How about we teach society not to assume that girls "want it" by default? Our culture thinks about rape in a completely different way than it thinks about other crimes. If you get mugged, no one starts interrogating you about what you were wearing to tempt the mugger or accuses you of giving him a gift and then changing your mind. People don't mourn the loss of the promising future of the guy who was convicted of knocking over a convenience store. Those aren't conversations our society has, the way it has them about rape.