[ SECRET POST #2273 ]

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⌈ Secret Post #2273 ⌋

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Comments

Re: "Erotic resistance"

[(Anonymous)]

IMO, there isn't a problem with teaching tactics to hopefully prevent rape - the problem is putting the entire onus on the (female) victim rather than on the (male) rapist. (And furthermore, assuming all victims are women and women are the only people who need to be "taught" how to protect themselves ignores the existence of male victims and female rapists.)

The idea of it is fine, it's the execution. People who talk about what women should do to protect themselves generally come with the mindset that rapists are rapists and there's nothing anybody can do to change that, and they generally end up telling women these things after she's been raped, like it's all her fault and she should've known better, when even if she did, it's not helping her one damn bit now, and is likely just going to make her feel more guilty and more unwilling to come forward and report it.

Re: "Erotic resistance"

[(Anonymous)]

Moreover, it creates an (entirely inaccurate) expectation that, if a woman does all the "right" things, they'll be safe -- when the majority of rapes are committed by someone the woman knows and trusts. So not only does putting the onus of preventing rape on the woman make survivors who were attacked feel guilty for their own assault, but it makes rape victims whose rapes don't fit the "stranger in a dark alley" profile uncertain of whether what happened to them was "really" rape at all, and thus they end up feeling guilty as well and are less likely to report their assault.