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fandomsecrets2013-03-24 03:34 pm
case) wrote in fandomsecrets2013-03-24 03:34 pm
[ SECRET POST #2273 ]
⌈ Secret Post #2273 ⌋
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Re: When and How Did You Realize You Were Queer
I will have to bring you back in time, about 10 years ago, from when I was about 12 to I was about 15 I had two sexual relationships (at the same time) with two different girls (same age as me) which was awesome and all that.
Which stopped right before I ended up in my first long term relationship (this time a real relationship, not just a sex thing) with a man for about 4 years, we broke up then I was in another relationship with a man for a year or so, which brings us neatly into last yearish.
I did identify as bisexual a short while when I was about 16 along with an emo phase actually, then I identified as straight.
Not too long ago I had this "ahah moment" where I realized, I've had more sexual encounters with women than men and how on earth didn't I realize I was bisexual before now?
To clarify, I have never really thought about my sexuality much so I can be somewhat excused for it to take this long to realize I like both genders.
Re: When and How Did You Realize You Were Queer
(Anonymous) 2013-03-24 11:37 pm (UTC)(link)I had a similar moment recently, being a long term relationship with a guy, where I realized I was starting to think it was "made sense" to just identify as straight since I had no desire to be in a relationship with a women.
But then, wait, I've had sex with women. I've enjoyed sex with women, and dated women, and enjoy the thought of being with women, and enjoy looking at women. And I realized that wasn't very straight and I should just stop worrying about not being "queer" enough for my gay friends.