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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2013-03-24 03:34 pm

[ SECRET POST #2273 ]


⌈ Secret Post #2273 ⌋

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Re: When and How Did You Realize You Were Queer

(Anonymous) 2013-03-24 11:37 pm (UTC)(link)
I was in my late 20s when I realized I was asexual.

It took so long because I never dated. I was exceedingly unattractive as a teen and in college, and my fantasies were all about being liked and having tons of friends rather than sex or even love. I tried to imagine myself with a boyfriend, and was at a loss as to what to do or how to behave with them. I knew about sex, and that apparently lots of people liked doing it, but I couldn't--and still can't, in my mid 30s--see myself participating.

I found asexuality through fanficrants, back when it was still a fun(?) ranting comm, and as I learned about it, the light bulb went off.

The best thing was realizing I wasn't a freak for not needing an SO or not needing sex or to masturbate, something I'd been feeling guilty about for years. What a relief to discover I'm not alone!!!