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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2013-03-25 06:40 pm

[ SECRET POST #2274 ]


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[personal profile] anonymouslyyours 2013-03-25 11:51 pm (UTC)(link)
Is this a recent loss? I can't tell if you're speaking of an earthly loss or a rejection, which ime differs the reaction. I don't want to come off as all condescending about how *you* feel but you may still be grieving (either way). I could be wrong but I've been there and came out on a different side eventually. But you know you best and values differ. I just can't imagine ever truly believing not knowing someone I loved is better than having whatever time I did with them in the long run.

(Anonymous) 2013-03-26 12:39 am (UTC)(link)
I didn't make the post because of any recent loss, but because it's an opinion I hold that has been germane before in my life, and nobody ever seems to agree. But no, it was never rejection; I had actually never thought of rejection as being relevant to the adage. I'm sure it is for some people, but it never crossed my mind in that way.

[personal profile] anonymouslyyours 2013-03-26 12:41 am (UTC)(link)
Huh. I'm just stuck on the thought of someone preferring to live a lonely life devoid of emotional connections and meaningful moments rather than experience loss. Is this an opinion that affects your relationships?