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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2013-03-25 06:40 pm

[ SECRET POST #2274 ]


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Break-Ups

(Anonymous) 2013-03-26 01:45 am (UTC)(link)
What are your reasons for breaking up with someone? How long do your relationships usually last?

Re: Break-Ups

(Anonymous) 2013-03-26 02:00 am (UTC)(link)
I usually break up with people when I figure out they don't exist. Not always, though. Sometimes the relationship is worth it.

Re: Break-Ups

(Anonymous) 2013-03-26 02:09 am (UTC)(link)
Dating imaginary people is something you do often?

Re: Break-Ups

(Anonymous) 2013-03-26 02:23 am (UTC)(link)
DA

I don't know about you. anon. But, I prefer my men tall, dark, and incorporeal.
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Re: Break-Ups

[personal profile] insanenoodlyguy 2013-03-26 03:43 am (UTC)(link)
No no, I get it. They thought a person was like this, but as they get to know the person more, they discover they were dissapointingly wrong.

OP should remember though that most don't put their flaws forward in most situations. That's part of getting to know a person. Just make sure your perspective isn't fucked and you are leaving for real reasons and not "they make an annoying snort while sleeping" or "minor political or ideological differences we could agree to disagree on or at least accept about each other"

Re: Break-Ups

(Anonymous) 2013-03-26 02:13 am (UTC)(link)
Typically if our values that I strongly believe in don't match well with each other. There's plenty of people I've dated who I've had fun with because of our shared interests, but when it comes to my personal values about things I strongly believe in, I can't see myself in a long-term relationship with someone who doesn't care about those same things.

My relationships before lasted for a few months. But I've been with my current partner for almost 3 years and we're still going strong.

Re: Break-Ups

(Anonymous) 2013-03-26 06:54 am (UTC)(link)
How long it lasts varies and well...Usually when I'm the dumper it's because I'm not happy in the relationship and I've already given my best shot [usually more than one at that] at fixing it and I just...can't be bothered to anymore.

Re: Break-Ups

(Anonymous) 2013-03-26 07:55 am (UTC)(link)
Mine are usually a few years long. Usually we split because we've changed too much and aren't really compatible anymore. I got married a few years ago and this time it is working out because we are both older and not changing so fast as we did say ten years ago. We are so much alike that most of our changes bring us closer together instead of making us grow apart.