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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2013-03-25 06:40 pm

[ SECRET POST #2274 ]


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insanenoodlyguy: (Default)

Re: Guilt

[personal profile] insanenoodlyguy 2013-03-26 03:41 am (UTC)(link)
What you just said for starters. But to her. Remind her she's a good, loved person. By you, for one. Get her away from toxic influences if you can (is there some horrible website she frequents? Academics themselves are harder but remind her x professor isn't god)

Re: Guilt

(Anonymous) 2013-03-26 03:59 am (UTC)(link)
I will try to get her off of some of the more toxic websites yes. I'm very close to her, so I know I can have a bit more influence than most of the people in our circle of friends.

The sad this is that this started with her genuine caring nature, and she's very bright and educated and she just wanted to become more aware of how things really are in the world. It just seemed like the extremist side of this seeped in, and it's got such a hold on her mentality.

She started treating me differently, and that was my warning sign.

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Re: Guilt

[personal profile] insanenoodlyguy 2013-03-26 05:58 am (UTC)(link)
As anon below said, obviously you can't just reach into her head and turn a switch. But you can definitely tell her you want her and you to be how you used to be. Asking her to treat you the way you want to be treated is hardly overstepping your bounds.