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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2013-03-26 07:01 pm

[ SECRET POST #2275 ]


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Update About My Lady Love

[personal profile] biohazardgirl 2013-03-26 11:26 pm (UTC)(link)
An update for those interested.

So. . .after working up my courage for two weeks, I asked out that pretty girl I had a crush on. She was the first lady I asked out and pretty much the third irl person ever that I said "I am interested in women" to.

I was rejected :/ But it wasn't as bad as I thought it would be, and she was very kind about it. She said that we should definitely continue to be friends and that we should hang out more and she immediately made plans to hang out with me on Friday for a "friend date."

Some part of me is disappointed that it didn't go the way I wanted, but another part of me is growing proud that I had the nerves to ask her out in the first place. There will be other fish in the sea, and it won't be so scary to try to catch one next time. Thanks for the encouragement, guys <3 You're the best.

Incidentally for those that remember I am also confused possibly bisexual! anon from a few months ago, so just let it be known that your love and support during my whole journey thus far of figuring myself out has been welcome and touching.

Much love from me <3
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Re: Update About My Lady Love

[personal profile] morieris 2013-03-26 11:29 pm (UTC)(link)
I admire you for even asking her out in the first place.
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Re: Update About My Lady Love

[personal profile] biohazardgirl 2013-03-26 11:30 pm (UTC)(link)
You're sweet <3

I was not skilled at it. Much stammering was involved xD I am terribly awkward.

Re: Update About My Lady Love

[personal profile] unicornherds 2013-03-26 11:31 pm (UTC)(link)
You should definitely feel proud about actually asking her out! That's super nerve-wracking, so go you for doing it! Sorry she didn't say yes though.
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Re: Update About My Lady Love

[personal profile] biohazardgirl 2013-03-26 11:32 pm (UTC)(link)
Thank you <3 I was very nervous, but I'm glad I did it. It's ok, there are other fish in the sea :)

Re: Update About My Lady Love

(Anonymous) 2013-03-26 11:32 pm (UTC)(link)
Hey, that's pretty good! Sorry that it didn't work out but, uh, yeah. Keep on trying and it is good that this happened and I'm glad you see it that way. And uh, good job, I guess.
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Re: Update About My Lady Love

[personal profile] biohazardgirl 2013-03-26 11:33 pm (UTC)(link)
Thank you nice anon <3

Re: Update About My Lady Love

(Anonymous) 2013-03-26 11:36 pm (UTC)(link)
Yay! Sorry that she rejected you, but go you for having the courage to ask her out! *sends love back*
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Re: Update About My Lady Love

[personal profile] inkdust 2013-03-26 11:47 pm (UTC)(link)
Agh that's so hard to do! I got myself to do it last year after way too much pining and was kindly turned down as well :\
For me it ended up really being for the best, though, so here's hoping the same for you. I'm glad you're going to stay friends :)

Re: Update About My Lady Love

(Anonymous) 2013-03-26 11:56 pm (UTC)(link)
You are awesome and incredible brave for asking, regardless of the answer. Also kudos for handling it so well. Getting turned down is never fun, but so many people overreact and blow their chance at making a cool new friend.
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Re: Update About My Lady Love

[personal profile] caecilia 2013-03-26 11:57 pm (UTC)(link)
Ah, yes. A situation I know well.

You should feel good! It's a big weight off your shoulders, I bet. And it's really great that she took it so well and you got a new friend out of it.

Re: Update About My Lady Love

(Anonymous) 2013-03-27 12:09 am (UTC)(link)
Congratulations for having the nerves to do that in the first place.

I wish I had your bravery! :)
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Re: Update About My Lady Love

[personal profile] cloud_riven 2013-03-27 12:27 am (UTC)(link)
Go you for asking her out o/
It's also awesome that you can stay friends too!
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Re: Update About My Lady Love

[personal profile] elaminator 2013-03-27 12:33 am (UTC)(link)
It takes a lot of courage to do what you did, so be proud of yourself. It's a shame she wasn't interested but at least this didn't change her feelings for you so the two of you can stay friends.

Next time you do this it might not be as difficult!
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Re: Update About My Lady Love

[personal profile] making_excuses 2013-03-27 12:43 am (UTC)(link)
It was awesome you went through with it! Here is to hoping next time will go even better!

You are awesome BHG <3

Also I just want to add that I am so happy that this forum helps people, makes me feel like we are doing something right between arguing and talking about fictional characters!
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Re: Update About My Lady Love

[personal profile] sootyowl 2013-03-27 12:46 am (UTC)(link)
What you did is amazing and took a helluva lot of courage. You should be proud of your self :) Go you! I hope you have fun on your friend date.
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Re: Update About My Lady Love

[personal profile] kyuusei 2013-03-27 12:47 am (UTC)(link)
Awww yay :) Not the 'being rejected' part - but cool that you made 'friend date' plans right away. Kudos to you for asking though.
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Re: Update About My Lady Love

[personal profile] lunabee34 2013-03-27 04:58 pm (UTC)(link)
*hugs*

Good for you!