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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2013-03-27 07:53 pm

[ SECRET POST #2276 ]


⌈ Secret Post #2276 ⌋

Warning: Some secrets are NOT worksafe and may contain SPOILERS.

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[The Vikings]


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[Homestuck]


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[Spartacus]


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[Zettai Karen Children, The Unlimited Hyoubu Kyousuke]


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[From Eroica With Love]


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[Naruto]


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[Homestuck]


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[Ava's Demon]


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[Zero Escape]


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[Colin John Rudd]


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[Once Upon a Time]


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[ASOIAF/Game of Thrones]


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[Community]


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[Evangelion]


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[Discworld]


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[FFIV (Rydia)]


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[Teen Wolf/Harry Potter]


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Notes:

Sorry, late day at work.

Secrets Left to Post: 02 pages, 050 secrets from Secret Submission Post #325.
Secrets Not Posted: [ 0 - broken links ], [ 1 - not!secrets ], [ 1 - not!fandom ], [ 1 - too big ], [ 0 - repeat ].
Current Secret Submissions Post: here.
Suggestions, comments, and concerns should go here.

Re: Is this worth being bothered about?

(Anonymous) 2013-03-28 01:56 am (UTC)(link)
This is the sort of thing that depends on the relationship. For example, my husband and I are okay with one another pointing out attractive members of the opposite sex or posting pictures of people whom we find attractive (hell, he currently has a photo of a Suicide Girl as the background on his PC). However, not everyone is okay with this (such as those folks who are your models), and that's fine.

I would say that you should first think about why his behavior bothers you. Does it conflict with your values in a significant way? If it does, then talk to him about it; explain how you feel (and allow him to explain how he feels, as well). If you come out of the talk with the impression that your feelings have been considered and respected, then you're good to go. If he completely dismisses your feelings, then you may have a problem (I'll hasten to add that, in this case, it's the lack of respect that's the true issue), and you may have to consider breaking up with him.