[ SECRET POST #2285 ]

[case]

⌈ Secret Post #2285 ⌋

Warning: Some secrets are NOT worksafe and may contain SPOILERS.

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[NCIS]


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[Kirk Cameron]


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05.
[Lindsay Lohan, Sean Penn, Sean Bean]


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[MCU/Marvel movies - NOT the comics]


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10. [SPOILERS for Spartacus War of the Damned]



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11. [SPOILERS for Dangan Ronpa]



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12. [SPOILERS for The Walking Dead]



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13. [SPOILERS for House MD]



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14. [WARNING for rape]



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15. [WARNING for abuse]

[the beatles]





















Notes:

Secrets Left to Post: 00 pages, 000 secrets from Secret Submission Post #326.
Secrets Not Posted: [ 0 - broken links ], [ 0 - not!secrets ], [ 0 - not!fandom ], [ 0 - too big ], [ 0 - repeat ].
Current Secret Submissions Post: here.
Suggestions, comments, and concerns should go here.

Comments

[fscom]

15. [WARNING for abuse]
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[the beatles]

[(Anonymous)]

Oh, man, that's got to suck. All of it, really--emotionally abusive relationship, depression and having a Pavlovianly negative reaction to a Beatles song.

I hope you'll be able to find someone more supportive. Maybe even someone who can give that song new meaning for you.

[(Anonymous)]

Dealing with depression is pretty draining. He may well have made the right choice.

[(Anonymous)]

I mean, that can be true (I definitely try to avoid having intense relationships with depressed people- hasn't ever worked out well for me in the past), but all the same. You don't tell somebody that you're going to marry them and then back out because of reasons that should have been clear from the beginning

[(Anonymous)]

so, even though the op's depression was becoming problematic to the point that the fiance thought it was best to not get mired in more problems and possibly take on more than they could deal with...because the fiance 'made a promise' they're not allowed ever to take it back, extenuating circumstances be damned?

wow. hope that works out for you in the real world.

[(Anonymous)]

What sucks is that it sounded like he was a big part of causing her depression.

Going into someone's life, emotionally manipulating them into a spot that they need you, and then discarding them... is pretty brutal.

I don't know if that's exactly OP's situation but at first read that's what it sounded like to me.e

[(Anonymous)]

That's what you got out of this secret?! As an abuser, it's possible HE was the cause of her depression.

Hang in there, OP. You're well rid of him and I know it doesn't feel like that now, but someday it will.
You are stronger than you think, you can put yourself back together. Don't let him win. Someday you'll have your song back, too.

[childings.livejournal.com]

I don't know, I have a mental illness and I am the first to admit it puts a huge strain on my relationship with my spouse. I can understand people wanting to leave a relationship rather than dealing with that, NOBODY should be OBLIGATED to put up with someone's mental illness (especially if it isn't well controlled or the person in question isn't doing anything to try to keep it under control).

Also, how abusive can he really be if he left this person? That's not how abusers act, if he was really THAT abusive he would've stayed or convinced OP to stay with him so he could continue the cycle of abuse.

[childings.livejournal.com]

Also, if he was so abusive, why is OP upset that he left the relationship

Op here

[(Anonymous)]

Fuck you.

[eaten_by_bears]

I'm sorry about this, OP. Hopefully the association will weaken in time, once the wounds are less fresh.

[childings.livejournal.com]

It sucks when great songs get tainted by horrible life events :(