case: (Default)
Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2013-04-05 06:34 pm

[ SECRET POST #2285 ]


⌈ Secret Post #2285 ⌋

Warning: Some secrets are NOT worksafe and may contain SPOILERS.

01.


__________________________________________________



02.
[NCIS]


__________________________________________________



03.


__________________________________________________



04.
[Kirk Cameron]


__________________________________________________



05.
[Lindsay Lohan, Sean Penn, Sean Bean]


__________________________________________________



06.


__________________________________________________



07.
[MCU/Marvel movies - NOT the comics]


__________________________________________________



08.


__________________________________________________



09.


__________________________________________________













[ ----- SPOILERY SECRETS AHEAD ----- ]













10. [SPOILERS for Spartacus War of the Damned]



__________________________________________________



11. [SPOILERS for Dangan Ronpa]



__________________________________________________



12. [SPOILERS for The Walking Dead]



__________________________________________________



13. [SPOILERS for House MD]



__________________________________________________















[ ----- TRIGGERY SECRETS AHEAD ----- ]














14. [WARNING for rape]



__________________________________________________



15. [WARNING for abuse]

[the beatles]





















Notes:

Secrets Left to Post: 00 pages, 000 secrets from Secret Submission Post #326.
Secrets Not Posted: [ 0 - broken links ], [ 0 - not!secrets ], [ 0 - not!fandom ], [ 0 - too big ], [ 0 - repeat ].
Current Secret Submissions Post: here.
Suggestions, comments, and concerns should go here.
eaten_by_bears: Rodimus Prime, I am sick and tired of being responsible for the welfare of the entire universe and its outlying suburbs (Default)

Re: how do I get over myself

[personal profile] eaten_by_bears 2013-04-05 11:38 pm (UTC)(link)
Mostly time. It really stings at first, and everything reminds me of them, and I question myself ten ways to Tuesday about what I could've done differently, and I question every other relationship in my life as well. And then slowly, it gets easier, and I don't mind so much, and they mean less and less to me, and I start to feel more secure in my other relationships again.

What helps besides waiting is to put energy into the relationships in my life that really do work, so instead of feeling isolated and lonely and like I've lost something terribly important, I get to experience some positive social interaction with people who get me and remind me that I can still have friends.