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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2013-04-06 03:38 pm

[ SECRET POST #2286 ]


⌈ Secret Post #2286 ⌋

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(Anonymous) 2013-04-06 10:35 pm (UTC)(link)
I think I've been on both sides of this. I cut, and I have a close friend who can't hear about it a lot of the time. It hurts, and it feels lonely, but we've worked around it for the most part.

I also have a friend who, while very sweet in some ways, reminds me inescapably of someone very, very bad from my past. I can talk to her, but I can't read her stories, and I absolutely can't read about her interacting with her children. Eventually, I dealt with this by asking her to tag things. When she wouldn't, I unfriended her on that platform. She was upset, but well, she can deal with that. We're still friends on another platform, and when she upsets me, I remind myself that I am allowed to cut contact with her if I want to, and I'm allowed to wait out the discomfort for the sake of her friendship if I want to too. I have considered leaving the fandom because of her more than once, but it helps to remind myself that I have options.