[ SECRET POST #2293 ]

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⌈ Secret Post #2293 ⌋

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Comments

[(Anonymous)]

Not trying to be the rain on this "awww" thread but I genuinely wonder what your boyfriend thought to accomplish with breaking up?

[logicbutton]

Exactly, if two people live together it's less expensive for both. Maybe he thought that one or both of them would have better job prospects if they weren't tied down?

[(Anonymous)]

My first guess: he feels like he's the cause of the trouble, and if she breaks away from him she might be able to recover without him dragging her down.

It's not necessarily a smart thing to think, but people in bad situations sometimes go overboard on the self-blame.

[(Anonymous)]

Maybe the boyfriend feels like the majority of the debt are his fault? Like, maybe they are his old college loans or something like his medical bills that are putting them in such trouble.

[(Anonymous)]

My first thought when reading this secret was that OP's BF was looking for an excuse and she hasn't given him an out. He's just not that into her. It's sad because there are guys who have courage of their convictions, but when it's been studied, they find men tend to have "exit affairs" rather than just breaking up, because they end relationships in their head months beforehand, and then start finding excuses to break up, often eventually resorting to an affair.

[(Anonymous)]

Oh and just to add, I really hope I'm wrong, and the other replies here are right, it was just the thought that popped into my head.

[(Anonymous)]

Yea I really wish there was a little bit more info on the situation for this secret. For all we know it might be the girl who is the cause of so many financial problems, and he wants to break it off to recover himself but trying to do it in a way where it won't hurt her feelings so much.