ext_33427 ([identity profile] degrees.livejournal.com) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2007-09-14 12:42 pm

[ SECRET POST #252 ]


⌈ Secret Post #252 ⌋

Warning: Some secrets are NOT worksafe and may contain SPOILERS.


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Notes:

Last day to submit for next week! Oh, and post is early because I can!

Secrets Left to Post: 00 pages, 00 secrets from Secret Submission Post #036.
Secrets Not Posted:0 broken links, [ 1 2 ] not!secrets, 0 not!fandom, [ 1 ] too big.
Next Secret Post: Tomorrow, Saturday, September 15th, 2007.
Current Secret Submission Post: here.
Suggestions, comments, and concerns should go here.

Re: 15

(Anonymous) 2007-09-15 12:54 pm (UTC)(link)
I'm not sure why it would be better if people just didn't care about my feelings, than if they actively disliked me.

It's moot in any case. Nobody posts something positive and gets something negative like that unless they are disliked. Nobody gets dogpiled like that unless they are unwelcome.

Otherwise, someone would step up and say: this is not appropriate. Otherwise, the original criticizer would have realized it was not appropriate.

Re: 15

(Anonymous) 2007-09-15 08:05 pm (UTC)(link)
Different anon from the above, and also not sure if you are who I think you are, but this most likely applies whether you are or not.

Anyway, the way I see it, if it were true that people hated you and wanted you gone, there wouldn't have been a problem in the first place. Because if people really didn't want you around, no one would care that you seemed to be playing primarily with a certain group of people. It's because people like you and the rest of the group and want to play with you that the issue arose -- otherwise, we'd all just say "oh, these people suck, but they only play with each other anyway so we can just ignore them." I could be wrong -- I wasn't one of the critics and I can't claim to know what was going through their minds at the time -- but that's how it seems to me, at least.

Re: 15

(Anonymous) 2007-09-15 09:47 pm (UTC)(link)
I would be willing to accept that if you could find me someone--anyone--in the RP who has played with more people than I did.

Most of the reason I feel unwelcome still is that I can't even talk about this without hurting feelings/starting drama. Forgive me for being wanky here, I am going to stop replying.