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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2013-04-16 06:41 pm

[ SECRET POST #2296 ]


⌈ Secret Post #2296 ⌋

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(Anonymous) 2013-04-17 12:13 am (UTC)(link)
If you've tried to help, and they won't hear it, then let go and distance yourself a little. It'll be better for you, better for your friendship, and maybe she won't like it but I don't think it's best for her to have a friend constantly rolling their eyes at her and making passive aggressive secrets about them either.

Like I can see both sides to this, I have definitely had friends where I just had to give up because I couldn't be their therapist, but I also have my own troubles and I try not to put that on other people. Like if I'm complaining at all, I don't think people realize how much worse it is then I'm saying.

You don't know everything about this woman, so maybe take a step back with all the judgements. And this is my advice for a lot of people in this thread; be careful about how you judge other people's lives. I'm not saying you need to help everyone or coddle anyone, but be understanding enough to let it go sometimes.

(Anonymous) 2013-04-17 12:22 am (UTC)(link)
Yes, this. From the outside it seems like they're just being stupid and not trying, but from the inside it's a whole mess for a person to try and sort out.