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fandomsecrets2013-04-16 06:41 pm
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Re: Not OP
(Anonymous) 2013-04-17 01:50 am (UTC)(link)We aren't close friends and the one time I brought up their constant negativity, they ignored me and then tweeted some passive aggressive things that may or may not have been directed at me. That was when I just started ignoring the whining and I planned to quietly exit their life after some time had passed but shortly thereafter, a lot of people did exactly as I had planned and the person couldn't cope with it. I'm very empathetic in general and genuinely came to care for them before that even though we weren't close. After seeing how difficult it was for them to cope when all those people cut them off, I just can't bring myself to do it, especially because they have a good heart. So now I just talk to them about mutual interests that they haven't associated anything negative with. Unfortunately, that list keeps shrinking and I don't know what to do when it shrinks to zero.
Re: Not OP
(Anonymous) 2013-04-17 04:28 pm (UTC)(link)I don't know if this applies, but I didn't mean to say that you were responsible for their emotional state. You definitely are not, and sometimes distance and drifting apart can definitely be good things.
Best of luck.