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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2013-04-16 06:41 pm

[ SECRET POST #2296 ]


⌈ Secret Post #2296 ⌋

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OP here

(Anonymous) 2013-04-17 04:09 pm (UTC)(link)
1. Pretty sure, yes. I know because those are the nights she live tweets about watching one episode after another until 7am followed by tweets about how screwed she is because she has to hand in that paper that day. Maybe she's afraid she's going to fail and that's why she stays up all night to have an excuse if she does. But from what I can tell, she isn't even trying.

2. You could be right about that. However, I used to live in the same town and I've had numerous jobs there and I got all of them by just stopping by and asking if they needed any help. Mostly even without having to drop of a resume. I mentioned this in a reply further up but when I moved away, I had to quit my job (typical student job as a cashier in a store and okay-paid). When my boss told me that he would have to replace me, I told him I had a friend who was looking for a job. He said to bring her along for one of my shifts and if she did okay she could have the job. I was really excited for her but when I told her about it, she made some lame excuses and never showed. And then still kept on complaing.

3. We used to take a few classes together (we met at school and became friends through fandom, then I moved away) so I know her in RL. I would invite her over to my place when I had friends coming over to have dinner and watch a film or something but she never accepted. She also hardly ever showed up for study group and when she did, she wouldn't tag along if we went for a cup of coffee afterwards. "Getting out more" to me doesn't mean bars or clubs. I literally meant just leaving the house every now and then. You know, show up for classes etc. because wherelse are you going to meet people in RL? I have met most of my friends in school or at work, some just randomly and yes, I also have friends online.

I just wish we'd still live in the same town because I hate to have serious conversations on the phone. I'd feel a lot better if I could do it in person.

Thank you for your reply.

Re: OP here

(Anonymous) 2013-04-17 04:31 pm (UTC)(link)
I hope you never find yourself in the situation to really, really understand how fucked up what you're saying is.

Do yourself and this girl a favour and get out of her life.

Re: OP here

(Anonymous) 2013-04-17 05:54 pm (UTC)(link)
Not OP but very confused by this comment, would you mind elaborating?

Re: OP here

(Anonymous) 2013-04-17 06:37 pm (UTC)(link)
I don't get it? How is helping her to find a job and inviting her to a movie fucked up?

Re: OP here

(Anonymous) 2013-04-17 11:22 pm (UTC)(link)
Yeah, also colour me confused. I don't think the OP did anything wrong.

Re: OP here

(Anonymous) 2013-04-17 11:33 pm (UTC)(link)
IKR? Evidently, you must never expect anything of your depressed friends ever, and if your patience ever wears thin, you are a horrible person.