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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2013-04-16 06:41 pm

[ SECRET POST #2296 ]


⌈ Secret Post #2296 ⌋

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(Anonymous) 2013-04-19 10:47 am (UTC)(link)
This could be about my friend! Down to the age. To the extent that I'm worried she'll see this and think that I wrote it. I have been trying to treat her with as much compassion as I possibly can, but I worry that it gets to a point where I'm enabling her or that the relationship is becoming co-dependent. Plus on kind of a selfish level all she ever talks about is how her life isn't moving anywhere and pretty much extremely obsessive shipping talk. Like I'm a shipper but it seems to be what she spends all day every day thinking about. And she gets extremely upset when she thinks fandom isn't going her way. There's no longer any real fun or enjoyment left in the friendship. And she refuses any offers of help, suggestions, or even discussion in which the issues get raised. She always has an excuse for why nothing would work or why she can't talk about it. But she'll sulk if I then don't engage her in friendship. It's tough because I really do care about this person and she used to be such a great friend. I will stick with her as long as I can but at this point I'm doing it out of pity. I'm sorry :(