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fandomsecrets2013-04-17 06:47 pm
case) wrote in fandomsecrets2013-04-17 06:47 pm
[ SECRET POST #2297 ]
⌈ Secret Post #2297 ⌋
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Secrets Left to Post: 02 pages, 038 secrets from Secret Submission Post #328.
Secrets Not Posted: [ 0 - broken links ], [ 1 - not!secrets ], [ 0 - not!fandom ], [ 0 - too big ], [ 0 - repeat ].
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A. You're infatuated.
B. You're projecting because of your own past and your over investment is vicarious satisfaction of their being somebody to help in this instance (and being that somebody).
C. You're projecting some of your hangups problems onto this person and the remembrance of your own raw emotion is helping to craft in your mind worst-case scenarios
D. Any combination of the above. Most likely.
Even if I'm completely wrong though, I think it's pretty obvious that you aren't "becoming" over-invested but are in fact already there. On the plus side, the fact that your friend is indeed not connecting with you perpetually means you aren't the sole anchor in an otherwise miserable life, she obviously does have some other things to do which means she 1. Has things to do/places to go/people to see and 2. is capable of doing those things.
Take a deep breath. Relax. See if this message has given you any introspection or epiphany. Regardless of if it did or didn't... find your own things to do/places to go/people to see. Or YOU'LL become the one who has no other lifeline.