[ SECRET POST #2298 ]

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⌈ Secret Post #2298 ⌋

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Comments

[harp]

I'd want someone who really understands "Safe, Sane, and Consentual".

No kidding! Being a dominant is so much more than just beating and screwing (from what I understand; I know a lot of people in the scene). There's so much psychology involved and so much mood reading. From my outsider perspective, I would think that the dominant party would have to have the most control over themselves. You know, to not punish in anger, to remember limits, to be able to stop no matter how much fun they were having.

I much prefer Anne Rice's Sleeping Beauty BDSM series (which I got at 17) for a million reasons, but one of the top things it has over 50Shade is that the Sleeping Beauty series is not the kind of screwed up that can be imitated. Even the most mind-numbingly dense 50SoG fan wouldn't be able to hurt themselves with Rice's book because the fairytale setting plus the medieval motif plus the slave system set up makes it clear that this is a fairytale kingdom where this is how things work out, so unless they want to build a time machine or go find a real life prince, this book won't directly cause bad BDSM relationships the way SoG could/will. It's pure fantasy and it doesn't hesitate to remind.

[mimi-sardinia.livejournal.com]

I read those books in my mid-twenties, and yeah, from what I know, they're a lot better show of BDSM.

My favourite BDSM story was a LotR fanfic, where it shows the same basic type of BDSM that went round Fandom at the time, then revealed that the relationship was totally fucked up and showed how the couple slowly recovered and built something that worked.