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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2013-04-19 06:49 pm

[ SECRET POST #2299 ]


⌈ Secret Post #2299 ⌋

Warning: Some secrets are NOT worksafe and may contain SPOILERS.

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[Kuroko no Basuke]


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[Milestone Inc./Radilgy/Karous]


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[Glee/RPS]


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[The Following]


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10. [SPOILERS for Resident Evil 6]



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11. [SPOILERS for Doctor Who]



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12. [SPOILERS for Homestuck]



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13. [SPOILERS for Southland]



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14. [WARNING for ?? something]



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15. [WARNING for abuse]



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16. [WARNING for rape]



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17. [WARNING for rape]

[Spartacus / Once Upon a Time]


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18. [WARNING for animal abuse]




















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[personal profile] fingalsanteater 2013-04-19 11:23 pm (UTC)(link)
I can't tell if you are trolling, are completely dense and insensitive and/or just worded this poorly.

I'm going to go with poor wording. The brutality of that scene was very- rightly- disturbing. Even though, technically, it's still fantasy, I think it was a pretty good reminder that non-con fantasies do not translate to real life. Rape is absolutely horrific.

(Anonymous) 2013-04-19 11:26 pm (UTC)(link)
What is offensive about the wording? I don't see it.
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[personal profile] fingalsanteater 2013-04-19 11:31 pm (UTC)(link)
I'm just generally offended by people who don't "get" the seriousness of rape. Really? You don't get that an horrible act of force and, in many cases, violence is serious?

(Anonymous) 2013-04-19 11:41 pm (UTC)(link)
There are a lot of things that can make sense logically or intellectually but that you don't really get until something clicks. I don't see that as offensive.

(Anonymous) 2013-04-19 11:44 pm (UTC)(link)
Yeah, I thought OP meant they finally got it on a visceral/very emotional level.

(Anonymous) 2013-04-22 08:34 am (UTC)(link)
Same. In my personal case - I'm an asexual, so on a visceral level, it's hard to me to imagine how much worse rape would feel than any other similarly-violent sexual assault. On an intellectual level, sure - it's just as unthinkable how someone could do something like that to another person, and I know how deeply it can hurt people and destroy lives. But there's just that small piece inside of me that can't understand it.

(If it needs to be said, again, in my personal case. Not making any attempt to speak for all asexuals.)

sa

(Anonymous) 2013-04-22 08:35 am (UTC)(link)
*similarly-violent assault

(Anonymous) 2013-04-19 11:42 pm (UTC)(link)
DA - Sometimes people need to see something to get the full impact. Hearing that someone was scared and desperately trying to fight back is not the same as seeing it, like in that scene.
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[personal profile] akacat 2013-04-19 11:43 pm (UTC)(link)
But they get it now? Isn't that the important thing?

(Anonymous) 2013-04-19 11:54 pm (UTC)(link)
They didn't do it on fingal's set timeline. They had to see it before they could fully grasp it and that isn't good enough for fingal.

(Anonymous) 2013-04-19 11:46 pm (UTC)(link)
it's totally possible to understand something is horrible without actually having the visceral feeling of horror that you probably should have. I didn't understand the weight of assault until I was assaulted, personally.
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[personal profile] visp 2013-04-20 12:43 am (UTC)(link)
And are people supposed to be born with an inborn sense of "getting it?" There's a difference between objectively and emotionally knowing something.

(Anonymous) 2013-04-20 02:14 am (UTC)(link)
if everyone did 'get it' we wouldn't be living in a rape culture, now would we?
i'm glad at least one more person is now less likely to say "but you were wearing a short skirt!" "but you wanted it right?" "what's the big deal?" "you're lying!" but depressed that it's not the norm that your comment suggests.

(Anonymous) 2013-04-22 08:39 am (UTC)(link)
I think that's being unfair to the OP. Lack of imagination does not necessarily equal lack of empathy.