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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2013-04-21 04:48 pm

[ SECRET POST #2301 ]


⌈ Secret Post #2301 ⌋

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Re: How to Make Friends and Not Alienate People

[personal profile] 30_rock_office 2013-04-22 01:01 am (UTC)(link)
I'm pretty much the same way. When I meet new people, I usually dial it back and every once in awhile, toss out something that is sarcastic or blunt to see how they react. If they react badly, then I kind of assume things won't work out because I don't know how to not be sarcastic or speak my mind. But if they laugh or agree or play off of what I said, then I know we're going to hit it off. It's all about testing the waters with new people. Just watch and see how they react to your sense of humor/personality.

Just a word of warning though: there is a difference between being sarcastic/a smart alec/blunt and being rude/cruel/mean. Just be careful of that fine line of tact and decorum. I know it's a fine line and sometimes it's hard to bite one's tongue, so remember to apologize if you say something the offends someone. The number of times I have put my foot in my mouth...