[ SECRET POST #253 ]

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⌈ Secret Post #253 ⌋

Warning: Some secrets are NOT worksafe and may contain SPOILERS.

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Notes:

Wow, people are FAILING at secrets this time around...

*Have been informed that this secret was a rather obvious/recognizable attack at someone.

Secrets Left to Post: 09 pages, 222 secrets from Secret Submission Post #037.
Secrets Not Posted: [ 1 ] broken links, [ 1 2 3 ] not!secrets, 0 not!fandom, [ 1 2 3 ] repeats, [ 1 ] unreadable, [ 1 ] too big, [ 1 ] personal attack.
Next Secret Post: Tomorrow, Sunday, September 16th, 2007.
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Comments

[la-vamp.livejournal.com]

26. I know everyone's going to whine about how shallow I am, but I'm going to say it anyway. Hell yes, I agree with you. I'm tired of people pulling the shallow card on people that want do date other attractive people. These people shouldn't even be concerned with other peoples relationship problems. They should be more concerned about there own damn life than people they don't even know. For the record, I only date attractive people. Sorry, I'm not going to date someone unless I want to have sex with them. There, I fucking said it.

[valkyriur.livejournal.com]

Sorry, I'm not going to date someone unless I want to have sex with them.

Sex doesn't last forever. Enjoy it while you can. XD

[la-vamp.livejournal.com]

Sorry, for deleting. I just wanted to fix some errors on my original post. I'm sort of self conscience about my spelling. But, yes, I understand it doesn't last forever, but neither does love. I don't really believe in true love anyways.

[valkyriur.livejournal.com]

It's okay. :)

[la-vamp.livejournal.com]

Well, I'd kind of actually like to enjoy it while I can, but yeah. If someone wants to date someone attractive, I'm cool with that. It's just something I wouldn't do. Yes, I admit that I'm shallow, but I have no shame. It's the way I am. No hard feelings.

[valkyriur.livejournal.com]

Yeah, that was my point with my comment. heh Enjoy it while you got it. Everybody has different priorities.

[la-vamp.livejournal.com]

Ah, I see. I know that a lot of people enjoy companionship and romance. I don't. Romance seems like such a cheap act to me anyways. I kind of like to be alone most of the time. And Jesus, I'd like someone to slap me the minute I start complaining about my problems to a guy. Sex, in my opinion, is really the only reason I date.

[roko-epsilon.livejournal.com]

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I just still don't get why sex is such an integral part of RELATIONSHIP. I mean sure, it's how babies is made, but notforprocration!sex is like... just some pleasure activity to make people feel good. :\ The point of a relationship is for a feeling of having someone there for you who loves you for who you are and wants to be with you, and I don't see how sex is part of that. It confuses and sorta makes me sad when people say that someone is really nice and caring and makes them really happy and there's a CONNECTION, but they can't be with that person because they're not physically attractive enough.

[la-vamp.livejournal.com]

I already have people that care about me, but they're just friends or they're my family. Why do I need anything more? Relationships don't last forever. My family will always be there for me no matter what. Most of my friendships last pretty long. My previous relationships, even when I was dating for companionship during my younger days, never lasted longer than a year. I'd rather not pout and whine after a relationship falls apart. I really sorry. I know it sounds harsh, but this is just the way I feel. No hard feelings. =/

[roko-epsilon.livejournal.com]

But. The kind of caring of a special relationship with someone feels a lot different from the caring you get from friends and family. :\ I know people who have really loving friends and family, but they got depressed enough to consider offing themselves and the only thing that stopped them trying was the caring they got from the people they were in a relationship with. The companionship has a totally different feel to it.

I KNOW that nothing lasts forever, I know that a relationship for companionship won't last forever even if at some point everything's going so well that it seems it will. It's not that I think what you're saying is particularly harsh or shallow. I just think that the act of sex shouldn't be an integral part of what makes up a relationship, and if you're involved with someone for sex, then that's not a relationship, that's just fuckbuddies or a friendship with benefits.

[la-vamp.livejournal.com]

That's fine if you feel that way, but I stand by what I believe. I won't date anyone that's unattractive. I don't care if other people do. It's fine with me. I'm not going to change. Sorry.

[(Anonymous)]

Yep. Shallow.

[la-vamp.livejournal.com]

Why thank you. I try.