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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2013-04-23 07:07 pm

[ SECRET POST #2303 ]


⌈ Secret Post #2303 ⌋

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Re: My little brother...

(Anonymous) 2013-04-24 12:21 am (UTC)(link)
Dude, sometimes when you're 11 it feels like the world is against you and you're a little, overdramatic asshole because of it. If he's been to a counselor and then he's been to a psychologist after that, and neither saw a problem beyond ADHD...there's probably not a problem there.

You're not his mother, and just from this thread it doesn't sound like he needs or whats you to be, and if you push yourself in everywhere, he'll probably just resent you. Give him room to be who he is -- screaming jerkface and all -- and chances are good your parents are right, and he'll grow out of it.

So yeah. Step back and do your own thing. Just keep in touch. And when yo do, don't ask how he's feeling (most boys don't want to talk about their ~*feelings*~) just ask what he's been up to, how things are going, etc.

Re: My little brother...

(Anonymous) 2013-04-24 12:34 am (UTC)(link)
I push myself in everywhere because I HAVE to. Because otherwise my parents would be snapping at him all the time-- shouting at their boiling points--, and he'd be talking to himself every second, and throwing tantrums over every little thing.

I'm 17, and I know he's not my responsibility, but he doesn't really have anyone else. He doesn't have friends because of the talking to himself/screaming & crying tantrums/inability to talk about anything else but his interests, my parents obviously don't know what the hell to do with him, he doesn't listen to his teachers much, if at all... how can I NOT look after him?

Gosh, maybe I should just back off and let my parents deal with everything. I know it's not my job, but he's still my little brother. =/

Re: My little brother...

(Anonymous) 2013-04-24 12:55 am (UTC)(link)
I push myself in everywhere because I HAVE to. Because otherwise my parents would be snapping at him all the time-- shouting at their boiling points

Seriously, I say this as someone who's been there: let them. Let them yell, let him throw a fit, and when he's done, be there for him. That is the best thing you can do for him.