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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2013-04-23 07:07 pm

[ SECRET POST #2303 ]


⌈ Secret Post #2303 ⌋

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Notes:

Secrets Left to Post: 02 pages, 048 secrets from Secret Submission Post #329.
Secrets Not Posted: [ 0 - broken links ], [ 1 2 - not!secrets ], [ 1 - not!fandom ], [ 0 - too big ], [ 0 - repeat ].
Current Secret Submissions Post: here.
Suggestions, comments, and concerns should go here.

Re: Nonfandom secrets!

(Anonymous) 2013-04-24 02:43 am (UTC)(link)
I really wouldn't mind just being a housewife.

Re: Nonfandom secrets!

(Anonymous) 2013-04-24 02:51 am (UTC)(link)
Me neither. It's got all the benefits of living with someone who loves you PLUS the solitude of them going off to work for 8 hours a day and leaving you more-or-less alone.

Re: Nonfandom secrets!

(Anonymous) 2013-04-24 02:53 am (UTC)(link)
Same tbh.

Re: Nonfandom secrets!

(Anonymous) 2013-04-24 02:55 am (UTC)(link)
hey, i know this doesn't mean much since i'm an anonymous stranger, but that is absolutely okay, OP.

your life, your choice!

tbh, i don't want to be a "housewife" with the implications that carries with it... but i like the idea of having my own space, and caring for that space and making it into a safe and beautiful place to live. and if/when i'm ever ready for a relationship, i'd definitely be looking for something fluffy and monogamous.

not everyone wants that, and that's okay, too. :)

Re: Nonfandom secrets!

(Anonymous) 2013-04-24 03:15 am (UTC)(link)
Hey, if you can manage it and your SO is cool with it, there's really no reason not to go for it.

My partner stays at home (I call him my housebadger because he hates the word "husband") and we both absolutely love it. He gets to stay home and take care of our space, and when I come home from work, I get to just veg because he takes care of everything. With the work split up proportionally (regarding what we can handle and whatnot), it's a pretty sweet system, but living on one income (from a retail job, in my case) makes things a little tight. We don't mind, but not everyone likes to live like that.

The only real issue I can see with it is that it doesn't give you a way out if you need it. I mean, there are resources and whatnot to get you out of an abusive situation, but they don't give you a job or an income to live on. It's not exactly a configuration I'd recommend unless you're able to communicate well and often with your SO about your needs and wants - an egalitarian relationship is pretty much essential for making a stay-at-home situation healthy and workable. But like I said, if it's an option? Go for it! I hope you're able to eventually get what you want C: