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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2013-04-23 07:07 pm

[ SECRET POST #2303 ]


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Re: Laughing when uncomfortable?

[personal profile] republicanism 2013-04-24 06:03 am (UTC)(link)
yes i am like this except even worse because i tell jokes when i'm uncomfortable or sad to make up for the situation!!

I HATE that I'm like this. People always think that I don't take things seriously, but that's not the case at all.

i disagree with these people strongly but i understand your hatred of why you're like this. as i said i am like this too. i think many people do not understand that everyone deals with grief and sadness differently.

it took me a very long time to realize that it is a wonderful thing to be able to find humor in bad situations. if i don't do this then i usually react with anger which is WAY WORSE for me personally and more destructive. i would rather people find me insensitive than worry about me; i suppose it's a little of that, also, which is worth getting over.

at the same time, the people who tell you how to deal with grief and sadness are hypocrites because no one deals with it well. the only way we cope is through our own coping methods, you feel me? it just makes sense. i don't think either of us are wrong, just maybe a little weird. there's nothing wrong with being a little weird, gentle anonymous.