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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2013-04-24 06:46 pm

[ SECRET POST #2304 ]


⌈ Secret Post #2304 ⌋

Warning: Some secrets are NOT worksafe and may contain SPOILERS.

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[Veronica Mars]


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03.
[Trailer Park Boys]


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04.
[Star Ocean: The Second Story]


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[Katekyo Hitman Reborn!]


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[Prometheus]


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[Katekyo Hitman Reborn!, Fullmetal Alchemist, Bleach, Zettai Karen Children]


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[Kids in the Hall]


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[Vividred Operation]


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[dick & dom]


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[Game of Thrones]


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[Spartacus: War of the Damned]


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[CATS]


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[Archer]


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[Doctor Who]


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Notes:

Secrets Left to Post: 02 pages, 033 secrets from Secret Submission Post #329.
Secrets Not Posted: [ 0 - broken links ], [ 0 - not!secrets ], [ 0 - not!fandom ], [ 0 - too big ], [ 0 - repeat ].
Current Secret Submissions Post: here.
Suggestions, comments, and concerns should go here.

Re: Unfucked habitat anon - again (tw: cutting)

(Anonymous) 2013-04-25 03:36 am (UTC)(link)
You're not a horrible person.

You didn't ruin anything for her. She ruined it for herself, by wanting to bring in a guy when you told her that was a no-go.

I am 90% sure that your mother can't commit you to a long-term place against your will. You usually have to be a danger to yourself or to others, and even then it't a short term thing.

But now that you have done the major clean, if you keep doing one or two 20/10s a day (or what ever you did, I can only do about fifteen minutes before I get overwhelmed and then I need a fifteen minute break) it will stay clean enough to get another roommate, one who respects your issues with guys in your space. And also that may convince your mother that you can keep living on your own. And, most importantly, you deserve to live in a clean place!

If you do get another roommate, though, you might want to think about having a lease, because it's always good to have things spelled out in writing. Depending on your local laws, you could even put the thing about guys in your space in there.

You are not a horrible person. You are setting limits, which is a healthy thing. And when people don't respect your limits, you're removing them from your life. That is a good thing. I hope you are okay now. Maybe not great, but okay.