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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2013-04-26 06:50 pm

[ SECRET POST #2306 ]


⌈ Secret Post #2306 ⌋

Warning: Some secrets are NOT worksafe and may contain SPOILERS.

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06. http://i.imgur.com/oVNCgcT.png
[kind of porny, illustrated, Hetalia]


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[Pokemon]


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09. [SPOILERS for Kingdom Hearts]



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10. [SPOILERS for Spartacus]
http://i.imgur.com/OtBhrXi.png
[gore? kind of, i think, live-action]


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11. [SPOILERS for Game of Thrones]



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12. [WARNING for rape]



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13. [WARNING for child abuse]



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14. [WARNING for loli/shota]



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Notes:

Secrets Left to Post: 00 pages, 000 secrets from Secret Submission Post #329.
Secrets Not Posted: [ 0 - broken links ], [ 0 - not!secrets ], [ 0 - not!fandom ], [ 0 - too big ], [ 0 - repeat ], [ 1 - posted twice ].
Current Secret Submissions Post: here.
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Re: how do you respond to insulting "jokes"?

[personal profile] forgottenjester 2013-04-26 11:25 pm (UTC)(link)
Depends on how well I know the person and how well I can predict their reaction. If I know you pretty well and you’re open to criticism I will tell you that I think it's _____ and why. If I don't know you well I may or may not depending on how threatening I find you and if I have backup. If I know you and know you aren't open to criticism I will cut you off and stop socializing with you.

The last one happened to my second cousin. Nice guy but he's a fucking racist and refuses to believe he's a racist because "it's true". When I pointed it out to him, thinking he might listen, his entire demeanor changed and I felt scared so I backed off and I haven't spoken to or seen him since.

So the lesson of the day? Know your audience/recipient. Sometimes you can help them realize there's a problem. Sometimes there's nothing you can do.