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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2013-04-26 06:50 pm

[ SECRET POST #2306 ]


⌈ Secret Post #2306 ⌋

Warning: Some secrets are NOT worksafe and may contain SPOILERS.

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06. http://i.imgur.com/oVNCgcT.png
[kind of porny, illustrated, Hetalia]


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[Pokemon]


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09. [SPOILERS for Kingdom Hearts]



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10. [SPOILERS for Spartacus]
http://i.imgur.com/OtBhrXi.png
[gore? kind of, i think, live-action]


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11. [SPOILERS for Game of Thrones]



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12. [WARNING for rape]



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13. [WARNING for child abuse]



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14. [WARNING for loli/shota]



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(Anonymous) 2013-04-27 06:58 am (UTC)(link)
As a woman, I don't. I don't actually make less than men doing the same job I do, and I'm frankly more worried about whether I'm paid enough to make the job worth my while than about what my co-workers are making. I'm aware there's about a 25% chance I'll be raped in my lifetime, but that also means there's about a 75% chance I won't, and I don't lose sleep over it any more than I do other kinds of crime or misfortune I could suffer (and less than some others.) I know a few guys who are obnoxious sexists, but I find them more pathetic and exasperating than offensive, and not particularly threatening.

Without knowing more about OP and her circumstances, there's really no way we can tell whether she feels so oppressed because she's genuinely had nothing but bad experiences with bad men and heavy-handed patriarchal institutions all her life, or if she feels so oppressed because she's been taught that she is and that message is continually reinforced by the people around her. I think both scenarios are possible. Either way, I feel bad it's spoiling her ability to enjoy writing women and I hope she finds a way to overcome that.