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fandomsecrets2013-04-26 06:50 pm
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(Anonymous) 2013-04-29 04:12 am (UTC)(link)I'm sure she does love me, but in a toxic way. Her way of isolating me has traditionally been over-protectiveness - long after I turned eighteen, when I should have stopped rolling over, I let her forbid me to go out on my own because it 'wasn't safe'.
When I finally started to stick to my guns anyway, I had to endure many tantrums - either tears or throwing things and screaming - about how dare I 'make' her worry this way.
I've tried to encourage her to go out and do things on her own as well, but she refuses to do so unless I come along - like she can't enjoy herself unless I'm there to chaperone.
I'm now 25. I still live with her - it takes our combined salaries to keep the household afloat. But I weathered enough of the tantrums that she's down to making passive-aggressive remarks when I go somewhere.
I still don't have any friends; I've only ever had a few, mostly from school, and they haven't lasted. But I'm still hopeful that if I keep making an effort to live my life on my terms, to forge an identity separate from her possessiveness, I'll find people with whom I can have healthy relationships.
Wishing you the best for the same.