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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2013-04-27 03:53 pm

[ SECRET POST #2307 ]


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I wish you'd phrased this differently

(Anonymous) 2013-04-27 10:11 pm (UTC)(link)
I mean, you say trigger warnings are a courtesy and that you don't use them. People who think courtesies are things that can (even should) be avoided are dicks, imo.

I do get your point, though, and I agree with everyone else. Just slap a "I don't use trigger warnings, so this may contain triggery content" on those fics and call it a day.

Re: I wish you'd phrased this differently

(Anonymous) 2013-04-28 01:37 am (UTC)(link)
People who think courtesies are things that can (even should) be avoided are dicks, imo.

Yeah, this is why I'll never really see the "it's a courtesy, not a requirement" argument. You can argue all you want that holding the door for the person behind you is a courtesy, I'll still think you're an asshole if you slam it in their face.

Re: I wish you'd phrased this differently

(Anonymous) 2013-04-28 02:54 am (UTC)(link)
DA

Not holding the door isn't the height of manners, sure, but it's also not the same as slamming a door in someone's face.

And just like that false equivalence, choosing not to add warnings gets treated by some people as if it's the same thing as deliberately forcing someone to view triggering material-but it's really, really not. Not going out of one's way to accommodate others, even if that would be the polite thing to do, is entirely different that intentionally and actively seeking to harm or even just be rude to someone.