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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2013-05-05 03:31 pm

[ SECRET POST #2315 ]


⌈ Secret Post #2315 ⌋

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Re: I need some help/advice, guys (sexuality-related, ridiculously long)

(Anonymous) 2013-05-05 11:48 pm (UTC)(link)
sounds like you are asexual surrounded by shitty people/in a shitty environment

your family and friends only took you seriously if you were in a relationship? wtf?!

also, that guy had no right to cheat on you and you weren't obligated to have sex with him if you both got into the relationship agreeing that you wouldn't. he should have broken up with you instead of cheating

and i'm sorry about your lesbian crush/friend/girlfriend and her partner. that sounds really fucking miserable :(

Re: I need some help/advice, guys (sexuality-related, ridiculously long)

(Anonymous) 2013-05-05 11:55 pm (UTC)(link)
sounds like you are asexual surrounded by shitty people/in a shitty environment

This.

Re: I need some help/advice, guys (sexuality-related, ridiculously long)

(Anonymous) 2013-05-06 02:11 am (UTC)(link)
your family and friends only took you seriously if you were in a relationship? wtf?!

Pretty much. I kind of hate myself for it, but I've actually invented boyfriends before to make them happy. (And it had to be boyfriends because a lot of them would quit speaking to me if I had a girlfriend.) It's total bullshit, but it actually does affect how they treat me. When I'm single and they know about it, they all talk nonstop about their husbands/boyfriends and completely ignore that I'm there, but when I've had a boyfriend (or told them I had one) they actually include me. It makes no sense but that's the way it is.

also, that guy had no right to cheat on you and you weren't obligated to have sex with him if you both got into the relationship agreeing that you wouldn't. he should have broken up with you instead of cheating

Especially since at first I just wanted to be friends and HE was the one to insist that no sex wouldn't be an issue and he didn't care. I don't know why he didn't just take the out right then but maybe he didn't realize how important it was to him until later. He still should've ended things instead of lying to me though.

and i'm sorry about your lesbian crush/friend/girlfriend and her partner. that sounds really fucking miserable :(

I still think of her from time to time but I have no idea where she is now/what she's doing. I just hope she's happier, because yeah, she seemed pretty miserable even though her parents were happy.

Re: I need some help/advice, guys (sexuality-related, ridiculously long)

(Anonymous) 2013-05-06 03:03 am (UTC)(link)
i know it's easier said than done, but get better friends :( move, lose contact with your family, make your own family

seriously that shit is emotionally unhealthy

your family and friends are supposed to be good for you D:

Re: I need some help/advice, guys (sexuality-related, ridiculously long)

(Anonymous) 2013-05-06 04:08 am (UTC)(link)
I'm starting to think that. Not necessarily the moving and losing contact part because not all of my friends/family are like that, but yeah, there are probably a lot of people that it would be better to not have in my life.

Re: I need some help/advice, guys (sexuality-related, ridiculously long)

(Anonymous) 2013-05-06 03:44 am (UTC)(link)
(And it had to be boyfriends because a lot of them would quit speaking to me if I had a girlfriend.)

Problem solved?