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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2013-05-05 03:31 pm

[ SECRET POST #2315 ]


⌈ Secret Post #2315 ⌋

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Re: I need some help/advice, guys (sexuality-related, ridiculously long)

(Anonymous) 2013-05-06 01:57 am (UTC)(link)
Something else to remember, and I think the long comment down there touches on it pretty well, is that sexuality is Fluid. Labels are great for empowerment, but you only need them as long as they actually are empowering you. If choosing a label or trying to define yourself is the source of so much stress and anxiety, it might be better to just move away from it entirely.

No label fits anyone completely. Ever. There is no perfect straight person or perfect gay person or perfect bisexual person or perfect asexual person. These labels are about identity, and identity is partially about identifying with a group so that you don't have to feel so alone. So choose a label that will help you feel less alone, but don't let it define you completely.

Sexuality is fluid. You can be one thing today and one thing tomorrow and it's okay. The important part is that you're happy, anon, and that's what you should focus on being.