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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2013-05-06 06:40 pm

[ SECRET POST #2316 ]


⌈ Secret Post #2316 ⌋

Warning: Some secrets are NOT worksafe and may contain SPOILERS.

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[Band of Brothers]


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[Princess Princess]


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[Once Upon a Time]


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[Doctor Who]


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[toby turner/tobuscus/tobygames]


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[Common Law]


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[James May's Man Lab]


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[The Enigma of Amigara Fault]


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[Mad Men]


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[Lost Girl]


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[Twilight]


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[Monsters Inc]


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[Archer]


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[Super Junior / Infinite]


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Notes:

Secrets Left to Post: 03 pages, 062 secrets from Secret Submission Post #331.
Secrets Not Posted: [ 1 2 - broken links ], [ 1 (???) - not!secrets ], [ 0 - not!fandom ], [ 0 - too big ], [ 0 - repeat ], [ 2 - empty comments ].
Current Secret Submissions Post: here.
Suggestions, comments, and concerns should go here.
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[personal profile] bored_bitch 2013-05-07 01:17 am (UTC)(link)
Because it is absolutely mandatory for someone to love another being, just because that other being happened to come out of their body.

Because that's how love works.

Of course.

(Anonymous) 2013-05-07 01:22 am (UTC)(link)
Please don't ever become a parent. This isn't talking about unwanted pregnancies and putting kids up for adoption. These are parents who wanted kids and when they got them decided loving them was too much effort.
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[identity profile] childings.livejournal.com 2013-05-07 01:28 am (UTC)(link)
Well if you chose to raise a kid, you should love that child, otherwise you don't have any business raising them. Christ

(Anonymous) 2013-05-07 01:33 am (UTC)(link)
this. seriously, wtf is wrong with people
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[personal profile] visp 2013-05-07 06:42 am (UTC)(link)
So... how do you ensure that you will love the child(ren) you have?
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[personal profile] silverau 2013-05-07 09:17 am (UTC)(link)
The above anon's comment recommended counseling, for one thing... but apparently that's too extreme of an option because there's nothing wrong with not loving your own kid at all, right?

But seriously, you're acting like emotions can't even be controlled at all and that's not true. It's not easy to control your emotions, but it is possible. If you have postpartum depression or some other psychological thing interfering then you may need some extra help (and even if you don't counseling could be helpful), but the implication that love totally can't be controlled at all and that a parent therefore shouldn't even TRY is... baffling.

(Anonymous) 2013-05-07 06:43 am (UTC)(link)
IAWTC, but I think the problem is that too many people have children because "they're supposed to", or because "it's time", and they don't really think about whether or not they actually WANT children in the first place.

I think there's more people who have mixed feelings about their children than will admit it.
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[personal profile] silverau 2013-05-07 09:09 am (UTC)(link)
Are you kidding me?? Are you seriously implying that parents who don't love their kids shouldn't get counseling??? I guess if the kid ends up with severe emotional disorders or attachment problems or a just plain crappy life due to being raised by someone who doesn't love them it's okay with you, then. I just. I can't. Congratulations, you've just said the single most disgusting thing I've ever seen on the Internet.