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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2013-05-06 06:40 pm

[ SECRET POST #2316 ]


⌈ Secret Post #2316 ⌋

Warning: Some secrets are NOT worksafe and may contain SPOILERS.

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[Band of Brothers]


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[Princess Princess]


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[Once Upon a Time]


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[Doctor Who]


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[toby turner/tobuscus/tobygames]


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[Common Law]


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[James May's Man Lab]


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[The Enigma of Amigara Fault]


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[Mad Men]


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[Lost Girl]


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[Twilight]


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[Monsters Inc]


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[Archer]


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[Super Junior / Infinite]


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Notes:

Secrets Left to Post: 03 pages, 062 secrets from Secret Submission Post #331.
Secrets Not Posted: [ 1 2 - broken links ], [ 1 (???) - not!secrets ], [ 0 - not!fandom ], [ 0 - too big ], [ 0 - repeat ], [ 2 - empty comments ].
Current Secret Submissions Post: here.
Suggestions, comments, and concerns should go here.

(Anonymous) 2013-05-07 12:28 pm (UTC)(link)
Okay okay, I'm speaking out as someone whose mother had trouble loving and raising me and my sister.

She was only 15 when she got me, and had post-partum depression after my sister. I know it was really, really hard. A 15 year unfuctioning marriage with my stepfather didn't help it. It is taboo, and especially for mothers, to not love their children right away and all the time, and still it happens. And I imagine it feels pretty shitty. It feels pretty shitty to the children, too. So OP, I'm not judging you. However, I recommend you get help. My mom has finally, after breaking up with my stepdad and moving away where she works, learned to love, appreciate and properly raise me and my sister. We only see her weekends, but we keep in touch and when we do meet, it's wonderful. I have never been as happy.

There is hope for you. Whatever is preventing you from loving your children, can be worked around. So get counseling and try. For your and your children's sake.