[ SECRET POST #2316 ]

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⌈ Secret Post #2316 ⌋

Warning: Some secrets are NOT worksafe and may contain SPOILERS.

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[Band of Brothers]


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[Princess Princess]


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04.
[Once Upon a Time]


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[Doctor Who]


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[toby turner/tobuscus/tobygames]


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[Common Law]


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08.
[James May's Man Lab]


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09.
[The Enigma of Amigara Fault]


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[Mad Men]


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[Lost Girl]


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[Twilight]


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[Monsters Inc]


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[Archer]


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15.
[Super Junior / Infinite]


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Notes:

Secrets Left to Post: 03 pages, 062 secrets from Secret Submission Post #331.
Secrets Not Posted: [ 1 2 - broken links ], [ 1 (???) - not!secrets ], [ 0 - not!fandom ], [ 0 - too big ], [ 0 - repeat ], [ 2 - empty comments ].
Current Secret Submissions Post: here.
Suggestions, comments, and concerns should go here.

Comments

[(Anonymous)]

Chill. This says nothing about OP's capacity to take care of her children. We are often given this huge social expectation that our hearts will be bursting with magical sparkly love for our babies, and sometimes that shit doesn't happen right away. It certainly didn't for me. I had to *learn* to love my kid the same way I would have to learn to love any other human being; it didn't happen overnight. And sometimes that love gets buried under any manner of things. For me, it was post-partum depression and an unhealthy relationship with his father. Now it's the strain on my time, emotions and finances. Yeah, I love my kid, but I had to learn to, and I had to learn that love *isn't* always magical and sparkly, but just about enduring (with) someone because you can't imagine the alternative.

I had to learn what love actually was, and I had to learn how to do it and feel it. But in that interim, I still took care of his material/physical needs and his emotional ones, as well. Posting a secret about maybe not loving her child doesn't make the OP a shit parent.