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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2013-05-06 06:40 pm

[ SECRET POST #2316 ]


⌈ Secret Post #2316 ⌋

Warning: Some secrets are NOT worksafe and may contain SPOILERS.

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[Band of Brothers]


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[Princess Princess]


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[Once Upon a Time]


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[Doctor Who]


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[toby turner/tobuscus/tobygames]


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[Common Law]


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[James May's Man Lab]


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[The Enigma of Amigara Fault]


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[Mad Men]


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[Lost Girl]


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[Twilight]


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[Monsters Inc]


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[Archer]


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[Super Junior / Infinite]


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Notes:

Secrets Left to Post: 03 pages, 062 secrets from Secret Submission Post #331.
Secrets Not Posted: [ 1 2 - broken links ], [ 1 (???) - not!secrets ], [ 0 - not!fandom ], [ 0 - too big ], [ 0 - repeat ], [ 2 - empty comments ].
Current Secret Submissions Post: here.
Suggestions, comments, and concerns should go here.

(Anonymous) 2013-05-07 05:20 pm (UTC)(link)
So if you have kids because you genuinely want them and then realize it's not all sunshine and rainbows and cute well behaved kids who grow to be the apple of your eye. Then what? Had kids, got major clinical depression as diagnosed by a reproductive psychiatrist no less. Took the drugs, had counselling, both clinical and new age touchy feely stuff. Navel gazed for years struggling with the fact that, yes I love my kids as best I can, but it's doesn't always come naturally, it's been a struggle and if I had my time again I wouldn't have them. Never mind the shit I had to go through to get them, multiple miscarriages etc. And I keep that crap to myself ( and my husband, thank God) because of the judgmental bullshit other people feel free to dump on women to whom motherhood is a confusing and challenging experience. And the whole kids pick up on negative feelings stuff, yeah well, welcome to the human race. Good luck OP, I feel for ya!