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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2013-05-11 03:33 pm

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[personal profile] ex_paola492 2013-05-11 07:55 pm (UTC)(link)
You should tell them and watch the porn together. Just saying.

(Anonymous) 2013-05-11 08:03 pm (UTC)(link)
I would think watching porn with friends would be weird. Is this just me? Is watching porn together a common activity for people?

(Anonymous) 2013-05-11 08:12 pm (UTC)(link)
That was my thought as well. That would be... way too weird for me to do. But then maybe I'm just a repressed weirdo or something.

[personal profile] ex_paola492 2013-05-11 08:18 pm (UTC)(link)
Back when I was 14 my bff and I used to watch porn together. And when we had computer class, the guys would get together and watch porn. Of course, we'd giggle like idiots because "lolpenis" and stuff. So I'd say it's like a weird bonding experience? Nowdays we just make fun of it because some stuff is so damn raunchy, but it's also a sign that we are pretty comfortable with each other to talk about those kind of things.

eta: And now reading the above comment makes me feel like some sort of mind corrupting deviant.

eta#2: And the more I read my comment, the more I think "wow, I just admitted to watching porn when I was younger in public." Good going, self.
Edited 2013-05-11 21:16 (UTC)

(Anonymous) 2013-05-12 12:04 am (UTC)(link)
da

Your edits were cute. c:

(Anonymous) 2013-05-12 01:01 am (UTC)(link)
da

in that 'wow, what a dumbass' sort of way

[personal profile] ex_paola492 2013-05-12 01:45 am (UTC)(link)
Aaahahaha thanks for enjoying them, anon! /o\ tbh the more I spent thinking about it, the more embarrassed I got about being so open about it.

(Anonymous) 2013-05-11 08:20 pm (UTC)(link)
It comes up sometimes in fic, but that might be one of those "it comes up sometimes in porn!" justifications, i.e., not real life.

(Anonymous) 2013-05-11 08:21 pm (UTC)(link)
The closest I get is sharing a link with someone and then talking about how hot it was afterwards.
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[personal profile] elaminator 2013-05-11 08:25 pm (UTC)(link)
This is what I assumed paola meant. Oops.

If people want to watch porn together I say good for them!

I could never; I'd be hiding my face behind my hands in embarrassment.

(Anonymous) 2013-05-11 10:38 pm (UTC)(link)
Depends on the motivation, I guess? My friends and I have watched porn together for the lolz, but if you're watching it to actively get off on it, that might be a little awkward unless you and your friends are exceptionally chill about that sort of thing.

Regardless, I'm not sure this would help the OP, anyway - their problem has to do with seeing their porn characters in a non-porn context. Even if their friends knew about it and watched with them, there's still a good chance that they'll still try to get OP to watch the canon.

(Anonymous) 2013-05-11 10:41 pm (UTC)(link)
with online friends it's been no big deal just because i met so many of them through sex-oriented fandoms in the first place

it's not like we cyber each other or anything, and a lot of the time we're so desensitized to it that it's like watching anything else

(Anonymous) 2013-05-12 01:53 am (UTC)(link)
...unless you're watching the porn to laugh at it, it's...really really awkward to watch it together - particularly if you're watching it because you want to fap to it [either then or later]. I mean...at least for me that would be a complete turn off.

[personal profile] ex_paola492 2013-05-12 02:01 am (UTC)(link)
Well yeah... Wait, shit. Maybe I should have explained myself and added that we did watch the porn for lulz. God, it's like I'm burying myself into a hole the more I talk.

I'm not really one to fap to porn, but I watch it with friends because it's ridiculously cheesy. Also there are some honest to God humorous porn out there which are pretty funny. Like that Family Guy porn parody.
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[personal profile] charming_stranger 2013-05-12 03:11 am (UTC)(link)
Hey, it's okay. Don't worry. If you did fap to porn, that would be okay, and the fact that you don't is also okay. It's just porn, it's not like you were eating babies. =)

(Incidentally, reading erotic stories aloud - bad but not horrific ones for preference; funny voices optional - can be a fun group activity.)

[personal profile] ex_paola492 2013-05-12 04:19 pm (UTC)(link)
Aha I don't find porn that great. I only like it if the two characters going at it are into each other. Otherwise it's a no go for me.

I do like dramatic readings of 50 shades bad porn in general, though.